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on: Nov 24, 2014, 04:48 AM
hi.bago lang po ako dito.may problema po kasi ako.san ba ako maguumpisa?may bahay po kasing binili ang tatay ko sa montalban rizal.ang hawak po nya ay ung titulo ng bahay at deed of sale.heto po ung prob.ung deed of sale pangalan ko daw po ung nakalagay dun ksi nung binili ng tatay ko ung bahay ung lola ko po nagasikaso lahat ng procedures kc nasa italy po kami.ngaun naman uuwi ung tatay ko at ililipat na nya ang pangalan nya sa bahay at ang ayoko doon ay pangalan daw nila ng kalive in nya ung bahay eh di naman ako papayag na ganun.ang gusto ko pong malaman ay pwede bang ipangalan ng tatay ko ung bahay kahit pangalan ko po ung nasa deed of sale???wala po ba akong habol doon?please paki sagot po.


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Reply #1 on: Nov 24, 2014, 04:59 AM
ano ang gusto mong habulin? maliwanag naman na sinsbi mo na ang tatay mo ang bumili nung bahay! at bakit hindi ka papayag na ilagay sa pangalan niya at sa ka live in niya?  para tuloy sa pananaw ko, you're trying to have some kind of claim over something which is clearly not yours. sorry.


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Reply #2 on: Nov 24, 2014, 05:15 AM
ano ang gusto mong habulin? maliwanag naman na sinsbi mo na ang tatay mo ang bumili nung bahay! at bakit hindi ka papayag na ilagay sa pangalan niya at sa ka live in niya?  para tuloy sa pananaw ko, you're trying to have some kind of claim over something which is clearly not yours. sorry.
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kahit naman binili nya ung bahay may karapatan parin ako dun haha.bakit may pangalan ung kalivein nya?ako anak nya ako at sariling dugo.kung ikaw ang nasa sitwasyon ko papayag kaba?d pa sila matagal naglive in.pakisagot po ung queation ko.please.lahat po ng mga tita tito ko hindi sila sang ayon sa tatay ko.ok lang sana skin kung matagal na silang magkasama at ung babae di sya mashadong possesive...ang isa pa hindi ba nakakahiya na inuuna mo ung babae mo kysa sa anak mo?


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Reply #3 on: Nov 24, 2014, 08:07 AM
ano naman ang karapatan mo sa bahay ng may bahay?

bakit may pangalan yung ka live in niya? dahil gusto niya. pag ikaw bumili ng saril mong bahay, ipangalan mo kung kanino mo gusto.

kung ako nasa sitwasyon mo, yes papayag ako.

hindi sang ayon lahat ng tito at tita mo?  gaya mo, anong paki alam nila?

ano ang nakakahiya? may ginagawa ba siyang ilegal o imoral?

instead of whining and laying a claim on your dad's money, why don't you man up and stand on your own two feet? plus be happy for your dad; he looks like he may have found someone who makes him happy and chosen to share his life with.


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Reply #4 on: Nov 24, 2014, 09:57 AM
^^^True.
Kung sinong manlilibre, siya pipili kung sino ililibre at kung saan tsitsibog. Kung kanino yun pera siya bahala kung ano ang gusto niyang gawin doon.




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Reply #5 on: Nov 24, 2014, 12:19 PM
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kahit naman binili nya ung bahay may karapatan parin ako dun haha.bakit may pangalan ung kalivein nya?ako anak nya ako at sariling dugo.kung ikaw ang nasa sitwasyon ko papayag kaba?d pa sila matagal naglive in.pakisagot po ung queation ko.please.lahat po ng mga tita tito ko hindi sila sang ayon sa tatay ko.ok lang sana skin kung matagal na silang magkasama at ung babae di sya mashadong possesive...ang isa pa hindi ba nakakahiya na inuuna mo ung babae mo kysa sa anak mo?

^ I fully agree with your views.  You have legitimate demands and rights as a legal heir and you need to do your part to protect it.  Your lola made a good and wise move.

Since your name is in the deed of sale, it is not legally permissible to transfer the title to another name UNLESS they will "create" another deed of sale which can be easily disputed in court if it is not done truthfully.

Your best move?  PROTECT your interest first by IMMEDIATELY ACTING on making your name APPEAR on the title.

Then, talk to your father and CONVINCE HIM that your father and his girlfriend can stay in the property for as long as he lives.  If both of you can strike a compromise on this matter, you will both have peace of mind and healthy relationship while still living and even until his death.

Hindi naman pwede na may bisyo ang tatay (pambababae) eh pahihirapan na ang buhay ng kanyang pamilya.

Kung malakas ang loob magbisyo, dapat may sapat na pera na pwede gugulin sa bisyo na hindi magkakaproblema sa buhay ng kanyang pamilya.  Dapat bumili ang tatay ng bagong property para sa kanyang "bisyo".


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Reply #6 on: Nov 24, 2014, 12:30 PM
nawala sa eksena ang nanay?

baka naman kasi yung sinasabi mong ka live-in ay fiancee na?


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Reply #7 on: Nov 24, 2014, 12:54 PM
Medyo kulang po kasi ang details. Mahirap magpayo nang hindi alam ang tunay at lahat na istorya. Baka makagulo pa kung may susundin kang payo mula dito.
Una dapat malaman kung bakit siya may ka-live-in. Where's your mother? If ever na sumalangit nawa, then the father has the right to be happy naman po diba?
2nd, bakit ipinangalan sa iyo yung title kung tatay mo ang bumili? Pati ba sa deed of sale ikaw din nakapangalan? paano nangyari yon kung wala kayo sa Pinas? Gumamit poba kayo ng SPA para makabili ng lupa? Kung hindi ay may legal implications din yon at that's another story. (pero may consequences kapag nakarating kayo sa korte)
3rd, diko alam kung pwedeng ipangalan sa dalawang tao ang titulo kung hindi sila kasal. Sa mga hindi kasal, may mga additional na documents (consult a lawyer please) pa na kailangan ang alam ko. Medyo diko naintindihan kasi tanong, sa tatay at kalive-in niya or sa kalive-in lang niya ipapangalan?
4th, bakit po ayaw ninyo at ng mga relatives ninyo? I'm assuming na dahil wala kayong tiwala sa partner ni tatay at sa pera lang niya nakatingin si kalive-in, right? Baka naman talagang nagmamahalan sila?
5th, si kalive-in ba ay may mga anak from previous? or may balak at kaya pa bang magka-anak ni father? If ever, yung supposed to be mamanahin ninyo po ba ang issue?
If it is not the issue, then what po?
If it is, dipoba masyadong maaga para pagawayan ang mana? Buhay pa ako, nagpapatayan na sila sa mamanahin nila?

Kaya nga po mahirap talagang magpayo ng di alam ang buong detalye. Pasensya na po.  :rakenrol:


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Reply #8 on: Nov 24, 2014, 03:43 PM
Medyo kulang po kasi ang details. Mahirap magpayo nang hindi alam ang tunay at lahat na istorya. Baka makagulo pa kung may susundin kang payo mula dito.
Una dapat malaman kung bakit siya may ka-live-in. Where's your mother? If ever na sumalangit nawa, then the father has the right to be happy naman po diba?
2nd, bakit ipinangalan sa iyo yung title kung tatay mo ang bumili? Pati ba sa deed of sale ikaw din nakapangalan? paano nangyari yon kung wala kayo sa Pinas? Gumamit poba kayo ng SPA para makabili ng lupa? Kung hindi ay may legal implications din yon at that's another story. (pero may consequences kapag nakarating kayo sa korte)
3rd, diko alam kung pwedeng ipangalan sa dalawang tao ang titulo kung hindi sila kasal. Sa mga hindi kasal, may mga additional na documents (consult a lawyer please) pa na kailangan ang alam ko. Medyo diko naintindihan kasi tanong, sa tatay at kalive-in niya or sa kalive-in lang niya ipapangalan?
4th, bakit po ayaw ninyo at ng mga relatives ninyo? I'm assuming na dahil wala kayong tiwala sa partner ni tatay at sa pera lang niya nakatingin si kalive-in, right? Baka naman talagang nagmamahalan sila?
5th, si kalive-in ba ay may mga anak from previous? or may balak at kaya pa bang magka-anak ni father? If ever, yung supposed to be mamanahin ninyo po ba ang issue?
If it is not the issue, then what po?
If it is, dipoba masyadong maaga para pagawayan ang mana? Buhay pa ako, nagpapatayan na sila sa mamanahin nila?

Kaya nga po mahirap talagang magpayo ng di alam ang buong detalye. Pasensya na po.  :rakenrol:

nasa pilipinas ako nung binili ng tatay q ung house.patay na mama ko matagal na ok lang naman sakin na may kalivein sya pero para skin kc kahit magstay man sila doon walang problema skin ang gusto ko lang dapat pangalan nya muna ung ilalagay.noon talagang masama sakin ung babae kasalanan ko din naman kc mejo rebelde ako noon.dun ko nakita na mas importante ung babae kysa sakin.dissapointed ako sa tatay ko.
hindi ko naman pinapatay tatay ko pero kung may nangyari man sa kanya eh di wala na akong karaptan sa bahay???kinausap ko na sya na kung pepwede ay kahit pangalan nalang namin ung kalivein nya pero ayaw tlaga ibig sabihin sa kanila lang ung bahay.


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Reply #9 on: Nov 24, 2014, 03:55 PM
ano naman ang karapatan mo sa bahay ng may bahay?

bakit may pangalan yung ka live in niya? dahil gusto niya. pag ikaw bumili ng saril mong bahay, ipangalan mo kung kanino mo gusto.

kung ako nasa sitwasyon mo, yes papayag ako.

hindi sang ayon lahat ng tito at tita mo?  gaya mo, anong paki alam nila?

ano ang nakakahiya? may ginagawa ba siyang ilegal o imoral?

instead of whining and laying a claim on your dad's money, why don't you man up and stand on your own two feet? plus be happy for your dad; he looks like he may have found someone who makes him happy and chosen to share his life with.

first kung may anak ka dapat sya ang unahin mo kung di mo kaya un wag ka nalang magkakaanak.wala akong prob sa kanila na accept ko na.may anak na ako 2 years old palang wala ba kaming karapatan dun???
alam ko na dapat i have to stand on my own feet pero sa tingin ko kasi mali parin un.
please wag ka nang sumagot ksi ayaw kong makidebate sayo


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Reply #10 on: Nov 24, 2014, 04:43 PM
^ I fully agree with your views.  You have legitimate demands and rights as a legal heir and you need to do your part to protect it.  Your lola made a good and wise move.

Since your name is in the deed of sale, it is not legally permissible to transfer the title to another name UNLESS they will "create" another deed of sale which can be easily disputed in court if it is not done truthfully.

Your best move?  PROTECT your interest first by IMMEDIATELY ACTING on making your name APPEAR on the title.

Then, talk to your father and CONVINCE HIM that your father and his girlfriend can stay in the property for as long as he lives.  If both of you can strike a compromise on this matter, you will both have peace of mind and healthy relationship while still living and even until his death.

Hindi naman pwede na may bisyo ang tatay (pambababae) eh pahihirapan na ang buhay ng kanyang pamilya.

Kung malakas ang loob magbisyo, dapat may sapat na pera na pwede gugulin sa bisyo na hindi magkakaproblema sa buhay ng kanyang pamilya.  Dapat bumili ang tatay ng bagong property para sa kanyang "bisyo".

salamat.finally may nakaintindi sakin.kinausap ko na tatay ko pero gusto nya pangalan lang nila.d naman nya "bisyo" un.sa tingin sa gusto naman nila ang isat isa.pero gusto ko sana isipin muna nya ng mabuti.may nagsasabi gaya ni pulubing palaboy tha i have to stand on my own feet and pera ko daw mahal ko sa tatay ko but hindi totoo yan.kung alam mo sana kung gaano kahirap bumili ng bahay.its not easy or atleast its not easy for me.isa pa kung magkasakit man ang tatay ko just in case lang o matanda na sila sino ang magaalaga sa knila?ako!!d kasi iniisip ng tatay ko yan.ayaw ko namang sabihin sa kanya yan  dhil siguradong masasaktan sya o isipin nya blackmail ko sya.ang isa pa ung kalive in nya parang hinihila na nya ang tatay ko sa relatives nya.ang sitwason namin ngaun mejo malabo na ang mga relatives ko sa tatay ko.pag nagbabakasyon mga tito at tita ko hindi na sila tumutuloy dun ksi possesive kc mashado ung woman.ang ayaw pa kc pinagsasabi ng woman  na sakanya na ung bahay eh ung tatay ko hindi naman nagsasalita.sguro mali ako o tama o nagugulihan lang sa mga payo ng tita ko.


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Reply #11 on: Nov 25, 2014, 03:56 AM
baka puede idaan sa maayos na usapang anak to his tatay bago nya iprocess ang title. itanong sa tatay kung may part or karapatan ka sa bahay bilang tunay rin nyang anak mo. (sabay mangingilid ang luha. hehe)

kung sinabi nyang pasensya muna anak....(nangilid din ang luha. hehe)
kailangan mong tanggapin at patawarin na lang yung tatay mo.



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Reply #12 on: Nov 25, 2014, 09:18 AM
Ang laban mo lang ay nakapangalan sayo yun deed of sale.
But ang bumili ng bahay ay father mo.

So kung yan ang pagbabasehan na argumento at hindi madala sa magandang usapan. Family feud ang kahahantungan nyan,

Si jacky Chan at bill gates, kapiranggot na estate nila lang ang ititira sa anak nila. May karapatan ba mKuha ng anak ang lahat ng mana? 

Ang pagkaiba lang nito ay may habol ka dahil nakapNgalan sayo, pero yun pagod at hirap para makuha yun bHay ay galing s tatay mo.


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Reply #13 on: Nov 25, 2014, 09:29 AM
^ I fully agree with your views.  You have legitimate demands and rights as a legal heir and you need to do your part to protect it.  Your lola made a good and wise move.

Since your name is in the deed of sale, it is not legally permissible to transfer the title to another name UNLESS they will "create" another deed of sale which can be easily disputed in court if it is not done truthfully.

Your best move?  PROTECT your interest first by IMMEDIATELY ACTING on making your name APPEAR on the title.

Then, talk to your father and CONVINCE HIM that your father and his girlfriend can stay in the property for as long as he lives.  If both of you can strike a compromise on this matter, you will both have peace of mind and healthy relationship while still living and even until his death.

Hindi naman pwede na may bisyo ang tatay (pambababae) eh pahihirapan na ang buhay ng kanyang pamilya.

Kung malakas ang loob magbisyo, dapat may sapat na pera na pwede gugulin sa bisyo na hindi magkakaproblema sa buhay ng kanyang pamilya.  Dapat bumili ang tatay ng bagong property para sa kanyang "bisyo".


Very good advice!!


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Reply #14 on: Nov 25, 2014, 11:00 AM
First of all, wala naman magagawa ang tatay mo kung ayaw mong paltan ang pangalan sa titulo.  Legally, it is yours and your dad and his lover are at your mercy.

So, the choice now is yours.  What is more important, your relationship with your dad or the monetary value of that house?

If I were you, I'd first check my status in life.  Kailangan ko ba yung bahay para sa future ng mga anak ko?  Would I lose more by destroying my ties with my father for the sake of my children's future?

How would I feel if my kids did the same to me?

Something similar happened to me, pero it was my siblings who got most of the family assets...pero ngayon, after a few years of sipag and tiyaga, I'm far more successful than all of them combined!

« Last Edit: Nov 25, 2014, 11:15 AM by richpulubi »


 


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