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First of all, a pleasant evening to everyone.

I wanted you guys to know that at first I was here for some serious money talk. But when i saw this section this caught my attention.

I am in a relationship. Almost 3 years, 2years and 7mos to be exact. I am having a hard time trying to break up with her. She said that she gave her all to me. I know she did something but not everything. She is working, I am finishing my graduate study. I am earning and so as she. I can say that no one is having the upperhand in terms of financial responsibility. IDK what happened, IDC what if you call me names but there is one girl atm that is making me see life to a different level. But before I met her, our relationship is already "on the rocks". I am not happy anymore. IDK about her she said she still  want me, ends up with me and marry me. The other girl know the story she said that she will  be there for me no matter what my decision will be. She made me a different person. I can say I am better now. I am having trouble with my girlfriend  because she cries a lot. It's like she is exploiting a part of me that whenever someone cries I can't turn my back on them.

The other girl is someone who's always there for me. She has the quality of the girl that every man is dreaming. IDK if the problem is with me. I am afraid that I might hurt both of them. I know before we even met that I am no longer happy with my life as it's getting miserable with my relationship everyday. We start and end days fighting over petty things. I need your insights on this.
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First of all, a pleasant evening to everyone.
I wanted you guys to know that at first I was here for some serious money talk.But when i saw this section this caught my attention.

I am in a relationship. Almost 3 years, 2years and 7mos to be exact. I am having a hard time trying to break up with her. She said that she gave her all to me. I know she did something but not everything. She is working, I am finishing my graduate study. I am earning and so as she. I can say that no one is having the upperhand in terms of financial responsibility. IDK what happened, IDC what if you call me names but there is one girl atm that is making me see life to a different level. But before I met her, our relationship is already "on the rocks". I am not happy anymore. IDK about her she said she still  want me, ends up with me and marry me. The other girl know the story she said that she will  be there for me no matter what my decision will be. She made me a different person. I can say I am better now. I am having trouble with my girlfriend  because she cries a lot. It's like she is exploiting a part of me that whenever someone cries I can't turn my back on them.

The other girl is someone who's always there for me. She has the quality of the girl that every man is dreaming. IDK if the problem is with me. I am afraid that I might hurt both of them. I know before we even met that I am no longer happy with my life as it's getting miserable with my relationship everyday. We start and end days fighting over petty things. I need your insights on this.

para naman nakapili  at nakapagdecide ka na TS..
whatever your decision, don't make regrets..
follow your heart.. guard your heart..
don't make decisions when you're mad..

And remember: Use your head to get to the top. But use your heart to stay. -- pang career pla tong line na to.. sorry wrong post.hehe :rofl:


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First of all, a pleasant evening to everyone.
I wanted you guys to know that at first I was here for some serious money talk.But when i saw this section this caught my attention.

I am in a relationship. Almost 3 years, 2years and 7mos to be exact. I am having a hard time trying to break up with her. She said that she gave her all to me. I know she did something but not everything. She is working, I am finishing my graduate study. I am earning and so as she. I can say that no one is having the upperhand in terms of financial responsibility. IDK what happened, IDC what if you call me names but there is one girl atm that is making me see life to a different level. But before I met her, our relationship is already "on the rocks". I am not happy anymore. IDK about her she said she still  want me, ends up with me and marry me. The other girl know the story she said that she will  be there for me no matter what my decision will be. She made me a different person. I can say I am better now. I am having trouble with my girlfriend  because she cries a lot. It's like she is exploiting a part of me that whenever someone cries I can't turn my back on them.

The other girl is someone who's always there for me. She has the quality of the girl that every man is dreaming. IDK if the problem is with me. I am afraid that I might hurt both of them. I know before we even met that I am no longer happy with my life as it's getting miserable with my relationship everyday. We start and end days fighting over petty things. I need your insights on this.

ang gwapo-gwapo mo kuya at dalawang babae ang nag-aantay sayo.  :D

at tsaka malandi ka din kuya kasi may girlfriend ka pa ay may nilalandi o nagpapalandi ka pa sa iba.

pag-isipan mo yang mabuti, isipin mo ang opportunity cost nyan kung sakaling si bagong girlie ang pipiliin mo, kung worth it ba na iwan si gf para kay bagong girlie. remember, nakikita lang ang tunay na worth ng isang tao/bagay pag wala na.

ikaw lang makakasagot jan sa tanong mo.

 :rakenrol:


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sounds like you already know what you want, you've already made your decision.  you just want somebody to validate your decision, to tell you that it's alright.

First of all, a pleasant evening to everyone.
I wanted you guys to know that at first I was here for some serious money talk.But when i saw this section this caught my attention.

I am in a relationship. Almost 3 years, 2years and 7mos to be exact. I am having a hard time trying to break up with her. She said that she gave her all to me. I know she did something but not everything. She is working, I am finishing my graduate study. I am earning and so as she. I can say that no one is having the upperhand in terms of financial responsibility. IDK what happened, IDC what if you call me names but there is one girl atm that is making me see life to a different level. But before I met her, our relationship is already "on the rocks". I am not happy anymore. IDK about her she said she still  want me, ends up with me and marry me. The other girl know the story she said that she will  be there for me no matter what my decision will be. She made me a different person. I can say I am better now. I am having trouble with my girlfriend  because she cries a lot. It's like she is exploiting a part of me that whenever someone cries I can't turn my back on them.

The other girl is someone who's always there for me. She has the quality of the girl that every man is dreaming. IDK if the problem is with me. I am afraid that I might hurt both of them. I know before we even met that I am no longer happy with my life as it's getting miserable with my relationship everyday. We start and end days fighting over petty things. I need your insights on this.


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 :help: pareho tayo ng sitwasyon kaibigan. Ang kaibahan sa akin my wife left me and may nakilala akong girl na nakita ko sa kanya lahat ng gusto ko sa isang babae. Para kaming Soulmate. Mahirap na desisyon yan tol. Pero sabi nga nila kung magmahal ka ng dalawa piliin mo yung pangalawa kasi hindi mo naman mamahalin yun kung mahal mo pa yung una. You know what? Pinili ko yung nakilala kong Girl. Now were together and were happy. Kung ano man mangyari tatangapin ko basta don't regret it. Follow your heart and chose what makes you happy my friend. :welcome:


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I been in this situation before. trust me better end it asap than let it drag on for quite sometime. you might end up with nothing. Hindi totoo makakapaghintay lahat, dadating yung time mapapagod din yung naghihintay sau. Sabi nga sa kanta "its sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along" but gf mo  pa lang naman sya if its not working now what make you thing it will be working down the road... moving on for her is easier by ending rather than clinging on the hope that everything will turn out ok


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Musta na? Sino na pinili mo? Mag aadvise sana ako kaso last year pa pala to :-) Sorry kakajoin ko lang dito :-)


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ok. I can make 2 conclusions. First. You have a problem and you need something to chage. so YOU must to decide what do you want.
and second. i think you want to listen some advises like "poor guy, be happy with your true love". Don't try to relinquish your responsibility. it's your choice, not our. 


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The problem is with you, not with the ladies. You've already made up your mind to break your relationship, but because you fear losing everything, you still want a double deal. The truth is that you should follow your heart, rather than live with regrets. So if you want to quit your relationship, do so. Having two lives will only make you lose both ladies in the end.


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I think your main problem is the fear of the unknown. Rather than living in regrets and not being happy in your relationship, the best you can do for yourself and for those ladies is to make up your mind and follow your heart. Any more delays and double-dealings will only do you more harm


 


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