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Filipino Men Do Not Deserve Filipinas

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Do Filipina women deserve Filipino men?

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No
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aabrillo123

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on: Jul 27, 2011, 12:50 AM
This article will tell you exactly why most of our Filipino women desired men from other countries rather than their own natives. It is a very interesting and helpful article to help our Filipino men understand how to be a real man and apprehend the true and genuine value of the word, "Manhood". I learned and discovered many things in this article that is significant in the world we are living today.

Click the link below to read the whole article:

http://www.ich9.com/cultural-baggage/filipino-men-do-not-deserve-filipinas/


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Reply #1 on: Jul 27, 2011, 03:12 AM
(Excerpt from said article)

What defines a man?

One definition among many that comprise the holistic definition of a man is to be a provider. Sadly, for guys who want to take comfort in the concept of female economic equality with men; this is really an excuse of abdicating their roles as providers.
It’s a wake-up call to Filipino men; the fact that many women from all class levels, would consider it a more viable option to hook up with foreign men and migrate to other countries, as opposed to marrying a local Filipino who couldn’t or wouldn’t step up to his role as a man and provide for her.

That should be a wake-up call to Pinoys, that they haven’t been handling the business by preparing themselves to be a good provider; or if they’re at the right age, to BE a good provider. They should have the right values and character to be a viable employee, and a producer of value regardless of what they do.

Filipino men as overgrown ungrateful babies

Some forums even feature Filipino men blaming their own mothers for their state of irresponsibility. Some are saying that they were being babied by their moms into becoming irresponsible. Is this really a valid excuse when they’re already adults and ostensibly responsible for their life choices? Or is this another cop-out?

Perhaps this is another sad example of Filipino men avoiding blame; just like when the Quirino grandstand hostage taking scandal blew up. Everyone from the mayor, down to the police personnel and officials involved kept refusing to take responsibility and kept on shifting the blame to somebody else.  Is this the state of Filipino manhood now, that we have really abrogated responsibility?

The trend of Filipinas finding chat partners, webcam partners, and dating partners online is really a side issue. The real focus here is the question of whether Filipino men have failed Filipino women. To some extent, do Filipino men really deserve Filipinas?
There’s a thin line between taking shelter under the concept of cultural pride as an excuse against irresponsibility, and actual justifiable cases of Filipino pride. Calling Filipina women who marry outside of their ethnicity “race traitors” is really dodging the issue of Filipino male responsibility.



Post Merge: Jul 27, 2011, 03:43 AM

I don't think it is fair to claim the above subject.

Though it must be be true in some cases, Filipino migration (men and women) were stimulated by better pay overseas. Poverty as a result of too much corruption which has dragged down the Philippine economy down to its knees being the cuprit. Most Filipinos are more talented and hard workers than foreigners.

Would you believe that most of petro-chemical plants are constructed by almost 80% by Filipino's labor ? We had the capability and manpower to implement contracting but we just don't had the capitalization. A sad fact but is true, we are in a sad state of economic downturn.

How many Filipinos (men and women in different fields) are earning dollars from overseas to satisfy their family's provisions back home ? Most of them even excelled more than their foreign counterparts.

Had the Philippine economy been kept uplift, there would not be influx of Filipinos going overseas. Maraming kalalakihan ang gustong magtrabaho para sa kanilang pamilya, pero no matter how hard they try they could hardly meet a day's provision for their family.

Poverty, as a result of too much corruption has dragged down the nation's economy and has driven Filipinos to seek for greener pastures and that includes Filipinas hunting foreigner husbands.

Take the case of sir fredm (with my due respect) here in PMT who was left by his Filipina girlfriend for a Filipino boyfriend.

A reminder to our Filipinas, hindi lahat ng foreigners eh mayaman.
« Last Edit: Jul 27, 2011, 03:43 AM by victor »


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Reply #2 on: Jul 27, 2011, 08:09 AM
ahem...do you want the godforsaken honest truth?

Well, first of all, try taking a survey of women who end up with a foreigner.  When you take the average(not all, but most), these women are just plain...unattractive!!!  What these foreigners look for in women are the exact opposite of what pinoy men find, stereotypically, attractive!  

I will leave it up to you guys to fill in the definition of attractive...but you know what I mean.

Oh ya, please include your definition of what is beautiful INSIDE.  Like, would you want to marry someone who has had many foreigner boyfriends?...if you catch my drift.

Some people even say, when a woman has past 35 years old and is still single...expat na lang ang hope niyang magka-asawa.  And mind you, the person who shared this idea with me is a woman!  

Really...women who look for men in a chat room?!!??  Why, there's been no suitors fighting to get your cellphone?  No officemate asking your friends to introduce you?

Don't dig too much into it.  Suffice it to say that unattractive pinay women who are being ignored by pinoys can still find hope for a partner...foreigner lang nga!
« Last Edit: Jul 27, 2011, 08:18 AM by richpulubi »


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Reply #3 on: Jul 27, 2011, 08:19 AM
This article will tell you exactly why most of our Filipino women desired men from other countries rather than their own natives. It is a very interesting and helpful article to help our Filipino men understand how to be a real man and apprehend the true and genuine value of the word, "Manhood". I learned and discovered many things in this article that is significant in the world we are living today.

Click the link below to read the whole article:

http://www.ich9.com/cultural-baggage/filipino-men-do-not-deserve-filipinas/

Very inaccurate, we have 40-50 Million Filipinas.. If you going to asked them one by one, I dont even see a closed result that would say they prefer foreigner...


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Reply #4 on: Jul 27, 2011, 10:00 AM

http://www.ich9.com/cultural-baggage/filipino-men-do-not-deserve-filipinas/

who ever the author of this article , introduce me to his wife and i'll prove him the real meaning of Filipino men!

pera lang naman ang gusto ng mga Pinay sa mga foreigner na yan!... 


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Reply #5 on: Jul 27, 2011, 10:13 AM
Ganito lang yun, saan niyo ba naririnig ang dialogue na:  Ang swerte naman ni Inday, nakapangasawa siya ng POREENER!



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Reply #6 on: Jul 27, 2011, 10:17 AM


Post Merge: Jul 27, 2011, 03:43 AM

I don't think it is fair to claim the above subject.

Though it must be be true in some cases, Filipino migration (men and women) were stimulated by better pay overseas. Poverty as a result of too much corruption which has dragged down the Philippine economy down to its knees being the cuprit. Most Filipinos are more talented and hard workers than foreigners.

Would you believe that most of petro-chemical plants are constructed by almost 80% by Filipino's labor ? We had the capability and manpower to implement contracting but we just don't had the capitalization. A sad fact but is true, we are in a sad state of economic downturn.

How many Filipinos (men and women in different fields) are earning dollars from overseas to satisfy their family's provisions back home ? Most of them even excelled more than their foreign counterparts.

Had the Philippine economy been kept uplift, there would not be influx of Filipinos going overseas. Maraming kalalakihan ang gustong magtrabaho para sa kanilang pamilya, pero no matter how hard they try they could hardly meet a day's provision for their family.

Poverty, as a result of too much corruption has dragged down the nation's economy and has driven Filipinos to seek for greener pastures and that includes Filipinas hunting foreigner husbands.

Take the case of sir fredm (with my due respect) here in PMT who was left by his Filipina girlfriend for a Filipino boyfriend.

A reminder to our Filipinas, hindi lahat ng foreigners eh mayaman.
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this is the real reason why!......


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Reply #7 on: Jul 27, 2011, 11:10 AM
LOL rp!!!

Unattractive Pinays abroad who marry men of other nationalities are called "Exotic".  :DHindi rin lang Pinay, almost all asians who do this. The common draw is the perception that whatever position she is right now, literally and figuratively, is way much better than where she was when was in her native land. For the guy? He gets a committed wife, mother to his children and an ever grateful p*ta sa gabi, maid sa araw( not my words, but that of a wife of an Australian ambassador in an Eastern European country we visited. This one though is beautiful at kayang makipagsabayan sa elite society). Common belief from foreigner husbands is that decent Pinays make faithful wives, too. And, according to one white guy who is a fan of all things Pinoy, a Pinay wife is "wise"(loosely translated from wa-is, maparaan, marunong--even with those words, i can't hit what he meant). To which i simply replied, "adversity is a great teacher."

While it's true that a lot of so-called old maids get better chances at marrying a foreigner, i guess the mentality here would support the article quoted. When a woman gets to that age, she would be so discerning that she can't tolerate ovegrown boys called Pinoys. or She gets older with much more patience to tolerate such foolishness and get a younger man to raise for herself. Sometimes being a loaded older woman helps. :watchuthink:


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Reply #8 on: Jul 27, 2011, 11:15 AM
Hmm, somebody here is promoting a blog explicitly. GoodSteward has noticed already..

« Last Edit: Jul 27, 2011, 03:28 PM by Payback »


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Reply #9 on: Jul 27, 2011, 11:43 AM
Exotic kasi gusto ng mga foreigner, which is the exact opposite ng gusto ng mga Pinoy.


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Reply #10 on: Jul 27, 2011, 02:32 PM
hahahah... you mean to say mga gold digger sila? lols di naman kasi lahat eh! and most of people married a foreigner is usually nga tama sabi nila as what we viewed they are exotic beauty and yon ang patok sa mga foreigner. as what vice ganda said palakpakan naman tayo jan kasi meron na naman isang kapamilya ang umasenso ang buhay:D lols


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Reply #11 on: Jul 27, 2011, 03:08 PM
Hmm, somebody's here is promoting a blog explicitly. GoodSteward has noticed already..



Amen


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Reply #12 on: Jul 27, 2011, 03:13 PM
Well... I think bias ang article ... Saka tulad ng sinasabi ng iba most of  these Filipina Women who are married to foreigners are those na masasabing "desperada" na ... With no offense sa mga Pinay na nakapag-asawa ng ibang lahi pero karamihan nga sa mga iyon ang habol ay financial stability .. Kasi un ang nakikita nilang makakaahon sa kanila sa kahirapan... And agree ako sa nabanggit na kadalasan sa kanila ay hindi kagandahan :) pero sa mata ng mga foreigners ay mala dyosa ang appeal nila ...

Saka sa panahon nga ngayon hindi na uso ang asawang pambahay lang ... Sa takbo ng buhay sa Pinas ... mas nanaisin ng lalaki ang mapapangasawang pwedeng katuwang sa gastusin ... Panahon pa ni kopong-kopong na ang babae ay nasa bahay lang ...
« Last Edit: Jul 27, 2011, 03:16 PM by Dodong_Pobre »


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Reply #13 on: Jul 27, 2011, 03:27 PM
nakaka hiyang sabihin pero sa totoo lang yong ibang Pinay(hindi naman lahat)na nagka asawa ng foreigner pag uwi sa Pinas nag hahap ng Pinoy!...ano ibig sabihin nyan?


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Reply #14 on: Jul 27, 2011, 03:50 PM
nakaka hiyang sabihin pero sa totoo lang yong ibang Pinay(hindi naman lahat)na nagka asawa ng foreigner pag uwi sa Pinas nag hahap ng Pinoy!...ano ibig sabihin nyan?

Siyempre iba parin ang Latundan sa Lakatan .. :)
« Last Edit: Jul 27, 2011, 05:05 PM by Dodong_Pobre »


 


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