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Pwede ba ung mahal nyo ang isa't isa pero wala commitment?

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ajkj

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Pwede bakit naman hindi. Pwede mo namang mahalin ang isa't isa kahit walang commitment, lalo na pag both of still studying pa and you want to prioritize your studies. Sabi nga ng iba, ang true love makakapagantay..kung kailan handa na makipagcommit anng isa't isa.


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Sa mga magagaling sa usapang "love" ask ko kayo about your opinion...
Masasabi mo ba na nagmamahalan kayo kahit walang commitment?  Gaano ba kahalaga ung may commitment sa isat-isa?

Base sa experience ko, akala ko nun una ok na ako, kuntento na walang commitment, walang problema, pro later on hahanapin mo din pala. Lalo na at nakikita ko na halos lahat ng kaibigan ko nagpakasal na , nagkapamilya na...

I asked him 3 times in different occasion if there's a chance na maging kami officially...kung may future ba kami..
Pero hindi nia ako masagot. at hnd nia maipapangako ang bukas.

Ayoko nmn xa pilitin na magcommit sakin..kaya kht masakit at kahit mahal ko siya , nagpaalam na ako sa knya at magmomove on na lang ako sa isang relasyon na wala nmn tlg mula umpisa....dahil gusto ko tlg ng seryosong relasyon.

Nirespeto nmn nya un and we seperate ways na. Masakit syempre, meron nga moment na gusto ko na sia tawagan at makipagbalikan, may time na tinatanong ko srili ko if tama ba na nakipaghiwalay ako? kasi ang sakit eh..at namimiss ko sya.

Pero in the end, hnd ako nakipagbalikan at hindi na ako umasa pa na magiging kami.

Mula nun maingat na ako at ayoko na pumasok sa isang relasyon na walang commitment.


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I always find the urge to leave a comment on this topic even if I actually not really after dramas.

As I always say, love is not enough. If you want your relationship to last, both of the parties should be committed. I had once a chance to know the stories of couples who have been married for years. They admitted that throughout the years of being together, there are really days when they seem to hate their partners and feels like there's no love left anymore. But what made them stay? It's their commitment to the other person.


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I always find the urge to leave a comment on this topic even if I actually not really after dramas.

As I always say, love is not enough. If you want your relationship to last, both of the parties should be committed.

Yes this is so true...I admire those couple you've mentioned. It’s easy to fall in love, once you’ve found someone, it’s easy to say, “I love you,” once you’ve shared some special moments with a boyfriend or girlfriend.
But what about that consistency we all crave, which comes only from true commitment? That’s a lot harder. Each person has to want it and be willing to sacrifice for the other. It takes shifting the way we view ourselves and giving up something, in order to give to someone else.

What I learned from that experience is that commitment requires open communication channels and an “all-in” mentality by both people. Relationships require each individual to meet in the middle, with dual commitment for the present and future.

Sure, nothing is promised, but when it comes time to progressing in a relationship and talking marriage, it’s critical for communication and commitment to be on point.




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Yes this is so true...I admire those couple you've mentioned. It’s easy to fall in love, once you’ve found someone, it’s easy to say, “I love you,” once you’ve shared some special moments with a boyfriend or girlfriend.
But what about that consistency we all crave, which comes only from true commitment? That’s a lot harder. Each person has to want it and be willing to sacrifice for the other. It takes shifting the way we view ourselves and giving up something, in order to give to someone else.

What I learned from that experience is that commitment requires open communication channels and an “all-in” mentality by both people. Relationships require each individual to meet in the middle, with dual commitment for the present and future.

Sure, nothing is promised, but when it comes time to progressing in a relationship and talking marriage, it’s critical for communication and commitment to be on point.

Indeed, communication is of paramount importance not just in your personal relationships but even at work :hihi: Anyway, it is important that your partner knows what you are expecting of him and vice versa. Open communication also likely eliminates misunderstandings and strife. And yes, I also agree that both of you should meet at the middle. Both sides should do the work to keep the relationship strong. Besides, you are called as partners.


 


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