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What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT

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Relationships are important part of human existence. This is a couple-oriented world, so whether you like it or not it is better to have a partner (man or woman).
In my opinion, respect is more important because you can be with somebody whom you respect even if you do not love him/her.
When respect goes, everything goes.
It is better to have both because the relationship is stronger.
You can not love somebody without respecting him, but you can respect somebody without loving him.
I married my husband because I love him and was able to learn to respect him, now, I have both, so our relationship is better and can not be withered by anything.


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I think love and respect have its own unique ways for the relationship to grow and surpass all the trials that both of you might experience. Hindi pwedeng mawala ang isa....


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mahirap kapag wala ng respect sa isang relationship. kahit gaano mo pa kamahal yung partner mo, kung tingin mo di ka na nya nirerespeto, itutuloy mo pa ba relasyon nyo?


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Mahirap paghihiwalayin yan dalawa. Lagi dapat magkasama yan lalo na sa mag-asawa.

Tama, you can be someone you respect even if you don't him/her. This might be true with your business partners, friends and mentors. But for couples/mag-asawa, dapat both are always go altogether.


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hindi ka mahal ng tao kung hindi ka nirerespeto and vise versa  :harhar:


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They both come hand in hand...if they go opposite, plastik-an na ang tawag diyan... :watchuthink:

cheers... :cool2:


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For me, love is a very broad word and according to the Bible, in that great discourse of St. Paul on love, 1 Corinthians 13 of the New Testament, love is the greatest of the virtues. And I believe you cannot love anybody (as God mean when He created the word 'love') withyout respecting him. For me, love is better.


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Both are important...however
You cannot Love without Respect...but you can Respect without Loving.



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love, respect, trust...dapat me kasamang lust.  :D
yeah I agree with you shaun, importante yung lust if it is between a guy and a gal and medyo di pa uugod-ugod he he he


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maski uugod-ugod pwede pa oi :hihi:

Kapag humupa na ang lust.. respect na lang natitira.. pwede pa rin kayong magkasama.
A lot of people who have been married for a long time share the secret :respect daw, maski hindi na nila love.. wala na ring lust   :D


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It's like the question, "which came first, the egg or the chicken?"  :hihi:


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pwede po bang sumagaot ng "or"  :hihi: wala po kasi akong itulak kabigin sa pagpipilian eh :D


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I think its love... because if we really love someone it follows that we will respect them... dapat lang! :-*


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Perfect love do really exist in fairy tales :watchuthink:
Do you think Jesus Christ is a fairy tale character?


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Love because respect follows if love is genuine..



there's no such thing as a PERFECT world, but when it comes to love a negative thing becomes the perfect thing though
I agree with these two statements by lonelyp


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Do you think Jesus Christ is a fairy tale character?


Please tell us po what is the connection of Jesus Christ sa Perfect Love po :thankyou:


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Do you think Jesus Christ is a fairy tale character?


I absolutely agree with you too dioj.. :applause: Jesus Christ continually shows us HIS UNENDING AND PERFECT love despite all OUR shortcomings.(AMEN). He entirely embraces all sinners and forgives them(and that includes me)...I think the concept of a PERFECT love depends on each and everyone of US so there is NOTHING to argue about the way each and everyone of us see it. :D
« Last Edit: Aug 24, 2009, 08:31 PM by lonely_planet »


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respect breeds love : proven fact time and time again. love alone deteriorates once trials come. respect carries you through because it involves the whole of a person including love.




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 ^^ Only you can answer that question... depends sa situation.

Love fades, same as respect..
If the person has offended you to the bones, don't you think your respect will be diminished or lost? Respect begets respect..
People fall in and out of love all the time, so, may hangganan..kaya may annullment sa Pinas and divorce sa ibang nasyon...


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^^Siguro kung mangyari man yan meron pa rin maiiwan na respect kahit wala ng love.  Even divorced/separated couples still have some degree of respect to one another.  

Which means to say that respect is more enduring than love although it does not bind couples together.  What binds is love so I think love is more important.

Secondary na lang yung respect.


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respect breeds love : proven fact time and time again. love alone deteriorates once trials come. respect carries you through because it involves the whole of a person including love.

Kudos to Mr Joat.. He hit it in the head ! :-*
I beg to disagree with Joat and Mam Mlangseth, you might be confusing love in its purest sense with sensual love and lust, I am talking about agape or divine love or the genuine love of a husband for his wife or the tru love a man has for his parents or siblings.


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For me both are important. In my case I don't consider love as Love if there is no respect.


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one is indispensable without the other.. love and respect walks hand in hand.. :D



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^^ Exactly..it is like a horse and carriage...must go together to work.


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S'plain why some say they love someone then proceed to knock them around. On the other hand, love will flourish with respect thrown in.

or, there is crazy love. But, is there crazy respect?


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i choose both. apparently, there's no need to choose, for the other is nothing without the other one.


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Ang tanong sa thread na ito ay maikokompara sa tanong na "which came first egg or the chicken?  :watchuthink:


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I'll go for respect.  Hirap mahalin ang taong di mo nirerespeto.


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Respect.  Kasi I can never love someone who I feel does not respect me.


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why don't we put all in though they're different...? :D
i rather choose LOVE.... :thankyou:


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you can respect somebody without loving him...example I respect the President of the USA..i do not love him.

But you cannot love somebody without respecting her/him.. like, I love and respect my husband, thus, our relationship is stronger. My husband respects  me for being me, and loves me for what I am.



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Respect...walang halaga ang pagmamahalan na walang respeto sa isa't-isa...


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These are always a combination. You are only a great pretender when loving someone without respect. If you truly show your love to someone that is already a form of respect.


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Love is the status of relationship between persons and respect is the most important part of this relationship.Without respect love doesn't exits.you have to respect your lover if you really do true love him/her.


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According to me RESPECT is more important than LOVE.
If you respect your partner than love increases itself.



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pareho yan important, walang competition kung love ba or respect ang panalo heheh di naman sila nag aaway eh hehe :hihi:


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if you love somebody respect will follow  :D sabi nga " Pagibig ay nagtatakip ng lahat ng kakulangan" :cool2:


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yes, inseparable talaga... :-*

How can you love somebody that you do not respect? :watchuthink:



 


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