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Reply #30 on: Nov 04, 2016, 07:49 PM
Maybe he has too high a regard of himself.


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Reply #31 on: Nov 04, 2016, 09:23 PM
If women wouldn't wait some, then there would be very few marriages   :hihi:    because women are normaly more eager to get married.  Less difference though, when the man get older. Do you mean all old men are in top condition?   :hihi:

The Philippines are very old fashioned concerning this. I know some Filipinas, who find themselves old being only 26-27.
It was similar in Thailand some years ago, but now it has become more and more common that higher educated women marry and get first child AFTER 30...
In Europe and USA this have been common many years.
Why are the Westerners nearing extinction?
Look no further ...
Do you mean it's hard to make babies...?    :hihi:

Related to old fashioned - North Europeans made many babies HOUNDRED YEARS AGO...


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Reply #32 on: Nov 14, 2016, 03:24 PM
But the guy doesn't think she's worth his?

He thinks she is. That is why he does not want to commit himself to her first unless he really knows that he is ready because he does not want to ruin it again.


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Reply #33 on: Nov 14, 2016, 03:46 PM
He thinks she is. That is why he does not want to commit himself to her first unless he really knows that he is ready because he does not want to ruin it again.

In other words he is not ready for a commitment.  So, don't waste the girl's time waiting for him.  Let her free to find someone willing to dedicate himself to her without any doubt in his mind.  If he loves her, he will set her free.


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Reply #34 on: Nov 14, 2016, 04:50 PM
What if ayaw maging free yung girl? Hehe


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Reply #35 on: Nov 14, 2016, 05:00 PM
What if ayaw maging free yung girl? Hehe

Wow, ganun na pala ngayon, yung girl ang lumiligaw!


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Reply #36 on: Nov 14, 2016, 05:06 PM
Hahha, malay natin, matinee idol ang dating ni sir.


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Reply #37 on: Nov 14, 2016, 07:56 PM
Hahha, malay natin, matinee idol ang dating ni sir.


Abay, oonga...

Profile pic naman!


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Reply #38 on: Nov 22, 2016, 05:34 PM
Naku, tayo naman ngayon ...
   
           ang to wait or not to wait  ...

For the PICTURE!


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Reply #39 on: Apr 13, 2017, 08:00 PM
i agree with LifeStyle. Baka nman ksi 10 years haha. Push mo lang kung worth the wait. Nasa pagkakatindihan nman yan.


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Reply #40 on: Aug 10, 2018, 01:47 AM
Waiting for the guy to commit to her.

Gaya nga ng story ko sa kabilang thread :
Base sa experience ko, akala ko nun una ok na ako, kuntento na walang commitment, walang problema, pro later on hahanapin mo din pala. Lalo na at nakikita ko na halos lahat ng kaibigan ko nagpakasal na , nagkapamilya na...

I asked him 3 times in different occasion if there's a chance na maging kami officially...kung may future ba kami..
Pero hindi nia ako masagot. at hnd nia maipapangako ang bukas.

Ayoko nmn xa pilitin na magcommit sakin..kaya kht masakit at kahit mahal ko siya , nagpaalam na ako sa knya at magmomove on na lang ako sa isang relasyon na wala nmn tlg mula umpisa....dahil gusto ko tlg ng seryosong relasyon.

Nirespeto nmn nya un and we seperate ways na. Masakit syempre, meron nga moment na gusto ko na sia tawagan at makipagbalikan, may time na tinatanong ko srili ko if tama ba na nakipaghiwalay ako? kasi ang sakit eh..at namimiss ko sya.

Pero in the end, hnd ako nakipagbalikan at hindi na ako umasa pa na magiging kami.

Mula nun maingat na ako at ayoko na pumasok sa isang relasyon na walang commitment.


I'm 32 when we met, naghintay ako sa knya for 2yrs. Was it worth it? Yes kc minahal ko tlga siya and I consider him my true love..pro ayoko nmn pilitin ang tao sa isang bagay na ako lang ang may gusto like commitment. 

isa pa, matanda na ako..hanggang kelan ko siya hihintayin?
« Last Edit: Aug 10, 2018, 01:59 AM by princess4 »


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Reply #41 on: Aug 14, 2018, 11:25 AM
Gaya nga ng story ko sa kabilang thread :

I'm 32 when we met, naghintay ako sa knya for 2yrs. Was it worth it? Yes kc minahal ko tlga siya and I consider him my true love..pro ayoko nmn pilitin ang tao sa isang bagay na ako lang ang may gusto like commitment. 

isa pa, matanda na ako..hanggang kelan ko siya hihintayin?

You did the right thing! I've been also there, done that. It's okay to wait but you should also know when to stop. Now, I just focus on my work.


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Reply #42 on: Mar 13, 2019, 04:51 PM
I perceive the girl who is willing to wait worthy and deserving of your love.

She is considerate and selfless. She understands your situation.

She is willing to compromise just to make the relationship work.


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Reply #43 on: Jun 20, 2019, 03:57 AM
What matters here is love. There are two sides of the coin in this matter, which must be addressed before making a decision. First, the girl could be deeply in love and offer to wait, but when the man would be ready, he'd opt for younger girls instead, so she'll lose. At the same time, there is no point in hurrying if you are not in love just because you are desparet, you'll never be happy at all. If the man is truly in love, he'll not make the lady to wait longer than necessary


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Reply #44 on: Aug 30, 2019, 02:46 AM
The decision on whether a girl should wait or not depends on several factors. 1. How old is the girl and how old will she be after the wait. 2. The bond between the lady and the man. 3. The priorities of both parties. 4. The patience level of the lady


 


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