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Naibabalik ba ang tiwala??

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hunkinvestor

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Yes - naibabalik ang tiwala. Tama po lahat ng sinabi nila... it's all up to you. It's not gonna be easy. Matagal na proseso din po iyan.


jeb

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hindi na... once na nasira na, sira na... pag emosyon ang pinag-uusapan, mahirap ng ibalik... kasi may tendency na gawin ulit... ang emosyon iba pag nasira, pag nagkalamat... hindi naman gamit ito o bagay na pag nagkalamat pwedeng idikit o tahiin o i-tape o ipako o itali o itapon at palitan ng bago... mapapatawad mo "oo" pero pagkatiwalaan mo ulit "hindi" kasi pwedeng may mag-trigger sa isa sa inyo, ikaw o siya, na mangyari ulit tapos mapapa-isip ka ngayon na baka mangyari ulit... pwedeng bagay, tao, lugar, nababasa, napapanood, napapakinggan ang trigger points...  :watchuthink: tao lang tayo, hindi perpekto...  :angel:


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jeb, parang ganito ba yan???hehe

tsokolate

Di ba't sinabi mo sa akin dati
 Na mahirap kumain ng tsokolateng
 Natunaw at parang wala nang korte
 Kadiri nang kainin, mukha nang ta
 Ewan ko ba kung bakit mahirap ibalik
 Sa original na hugis pag
 Nalusaw na sa init

Chorus 1
 Parang tiwala pag nasira na
 Mahirap nang ayusin pa
 Di kayang ipagdikit
 Ang tiwala pag napunit
 Parang nangyari kailan lang...
 Meron akong nakitang nakatagong regalo sa likod ng kotse mo
 Hugis puso na kahon, at may red na ribbon
 Mamahaling toblerone at,
 Noong aking tingnan, para sa iyo mula kay Christian
 Agad kong binuksan, tsokolate ang laman
 At di ko malaman kung ba't kailangang
 Itago sa akin ang katotohanan
 Ang dami-dami mo palang tsokolate,
 Di ka man lamang nagsasalita
 Ewan ko ba kung bakit hindi ko napigilan
 Ang regalo mo'y naubos ko
 Nang di ko nalalalaman

Chorus 2
 Parang tiwala pag naubos na
 Bigla-biglaan talaga
 Mahirap nang makita
 Kapag minsa'y nawala
 At kahit na pilitin, di mo na mapapalitan,
 Kahit hanap-hanapin, di mo na mababalikan,
 Kahit sabihin natin na ika'y mapagbigyan,
 Huwag na lang...
 Ewan ko ba kung bakit
 Mahirap tanggalin ang tsokolate
 pag natunaw at
 kumapit na sa ngipin
 Parang tiwala pag namantsahan na
 Mahirap nang linisin pa
 Di kayang burahin
 Kahit na anong gawin
 Parang tiwala...


bajoyjoy

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Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me... may kasama ng "shame" yung takot na maloko ulit, kaya usually hindi na nagwowork out kahit gustuhin pa nila ang isa't isa.
« Last Edit: Jun 09, 2014, 12:40 PM by bajoyjoy »


sj.unite

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Hindi na mababalik ang tiwala. Minsan nagiging hopeful at optimistic na lang tayo kahit na alam natin na mahirap nang ibalik. Mapapatawad ka oo, pero hinding hindi mo mabubura yung bad memory na yun. Hangga't naiisip pa niya yun, maapektuhan lang ang relationship niyo habang tinatry niyo ayusin. Mas magiging komplikado lang in the long run; may madedepress, masasaktan at pagmumulan pa yan ng ibang away.

Be man enough. Kung sobrang nagkamali ka na, tanggapin mo na lang na may mga bagay talaga na kailangan nang iwanan. Mas magigin komplikado lang pag nagstay ka pa at itry ayusin.


singkit_1588

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@sj.unite,
babalik at babalik lng ang mga memories n nagdulot ng sakit??

may possibility ba na ignore at forget na lng ung bad memories n un..??
paano??

nabasa ko sa fb..

"TRUST take years to BUILD
seconds to BREAK,
forever to REPAIR"

hayyy...need pa bang I-risk ang forever??haha


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 :cool2: ganda tanong ni singkit_1588 sa thread na 'to.

But actually- LOVE heals not TIME, same with TRUST to recover it's full strength.




sj.unite

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@sj.unite,
babalik at babalik lng ang mga memories n nagdulot ng sakit??

may possibility ba na ignore at forget na lng ung bad memories n un..??
paano??

nabasa ko sa fb..

"TRUST take years to BUILD
seconds to BREAK,
forever to REPAIR"

hayyy...need pa bang I-risk ang forever??haha

Based on my experience, one can never forget or even ignore the past kasi gagamitin mo na siya as defense mechanism para hindi na maulit ulit yung nangyari.

With regards to waiting for "forever", I think it all boils down to you. Kung kaya mo pang hintayin then do so para naman hindi mo masisi sarili mo na wala kang ginawa. Ang love ay parang isang stock, mag-iinvest ka emotionally pero dapat may exit point ka pag bumababa na ang price. :P


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dapat magtiwala pa rin..

" You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don't trust enough.."


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pray hard and put all of the mishaps in the past. thats what I did. no use in thinking about what happened in the past.


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If I may boss TS, since I've been on both sides of the fence. No matter how justified I thought I was (with girl #1), it also means that the cheating girl (girl #2) would not be justified as well. I learned that Karma exists and it hits really hard. I don't mean to be pessimistic, but chances are uulit siya sa ginawa nya, especially if the reasons for her doing it still exists (like if she's really just into men digging her and stuff, or something about you that you don't know about). I know it's really hard, especially since nalamangan ka, but tama si Vicces, just let her go. Frankly though, it would be such sweet rapture if she sees you one day (in a few months/ years time) and you've grown so well off without her that she comes crawling back to you, and you get to pummel regret into how she has done you wrong in the past. And you get to say NO.


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It's easy to forgive but it's not easy to forget.
Lalo na at sobra ang binigay mong tiwala dun sa tao. It takes time siguro para maibalik ung tiwala.

Haaayyy


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Sad to say, but that's the truth. We can forgive, and we can try to forget.But we can never do. Kahit magka-amnesia kapa.


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i think what the Bible is teaching us is really forgive...but probably should learn from the issue/problem, and be smarter...if a person borrow money and never pays back, u should forgive, but definitely he/she cant/may not borrow from u anymore....we cannot change people's personality, but as day goes by, our friendships/partnerships/personalities are constantly been tested, of course sometimes we end up hurting and sometimes we dont intend to hurt others as well, this is a constant lesson we need to learn..to follow our principles, or learn from other's advice....and knowing how to handle and distinguishing different personalities, we then can protect ourselves in the future.

its a painful/expensive lesson to learn, but in the long term you gain more from facing people who may betray your trust...but its your choice to be trapped with the feeling of being a loser/hurt, or move on and be wiser and stronger.

ika nga sa kanta ni regine v. ... (u make me stronger by breaking my heart... :hihi: :harhar:)


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Just learn to let go of the pain and start all over again.....if you truly love a person then you can do it


 


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