I like this girl pero takot akong mafriendzone...

[vicces]

"pasko na" = "anong petsa na"?

I just meant may pahiwatig pla as in yung ganyang context na hinihintay kang gumalaw/da moves...

totally agree on the copout tho'. ikaw na, ang #balls-collector!

edit: relevant read..
http://www.businessinsider.com/five-simple-ways-for-men-to-ruin-relationships-2013-11

[katkatmachine]

kung ako nyan kay TS (yes alam ko na ibig sabihin ng TS  ), habang nagsasalita si girlie, hahalikan ko lang siya bigla. syempre ma-stun si girl, baka masapak niya din si kuya pero keri lang. at least marerealize ni girl na may gusto pala sa kanya si kuya. after nun baka magcontemplate si girl sa estado ng relasyon nila ni kuya at dalawa ang pwedeng mangyari:

1. kadirian niya si kuya at forever ng layuan
2. maging open sa idea na may gusto sa kanya si kuya at payagang magpaligaw

either way, makakatakas si kuya sa pagkafriendzone. hehehe.

[freefront]

kung ako nyan kay TS (yes alam ko na ibig sabihin ng TS  ), habang nagsasalita si girlie, hahalikan ko lang siya bigla. syempre ma-stun si girl, baka masapak niya din si kuya pero keri lang. at least marerealize ni girl na may gusto pala sa kanya si kuya. after nun baka magcontemplate si girl sa estado ng relasyon nila ni kuya at dalawa ang pwedeng mangyari:

1. kadirian niya si kuya at forever ng layuan
2. maging open sa idea na may gusto sa kanya si kuya at payagang magpaligaw

either way, makakatakas si kuya sa pagkafriendzone. hehehe.

korrecshen: nasa staging zone si kuya. Hindi makasabak at baka ma-friendzone 

OT: awayin ko si vicces

"pasko na" = "anong petsa na"?

ang orig: anong hinihintay mo? Pasko?!? <<< best said when December is 11 months away

I just meant may pahiwatig pla as in yung ganyang context na hinihintay kang gumalaw/da moves...

totally agree on the copout tho'. ikaw na, ang #balls-collector!

I take offense on the balls-collector comment hmmphhh. FYI, man approaches>>>he is a human being foremost.Then he's a guy. Lastly, his own personality. FYI again---those man knowledge were taught to me by men whose protective instincts got the better of them, and they betrayed their teammates. It doesn't happen often and mostly not in the company of their tribesmen. But, if a decent guy lets out a succinct and foul slur against his fellow man, a girl can ask nicely(a little blackmail and some bribery sometimes help) and they'd tell why, most of the time. I ask them, too, why they are behaving like asses when they do behave like asses. Who better to understand men from, if not from men themselves? Let's not forget to add that those friends know for certain I'm not after their danglies. So......

edit: relevant read..
http://www.businessinsider.com/five-simple-ways-for-men-to-ruin-relationships-2013-11

Summary: Behave like barbarians.

[bolt]

Lumalabas, nagtitxt tapos tatawagin kang "kuya"? Equals awkward.
She's not into you. She doesn't want you to interpret whatever it is she'd doing with you as something more than being nice, at most being friends.
Now, if you really like her, huwag mo pansinin, keep a distance, for sure hahanapin nya attention mo, and then that's the time you tell her what you feel.

[vicces]

^Lumalabas din...we/men take a girl's behavior or actuations, literally (just like how we take almost everything else in life).. Kaya si kuya TS hindi na mapakali dahil tinatawag syang kuya... Samantala, based sa sagot ng mga girls dito, may pahiwatig na maaaring gusto talaga siya kailangan lang pag-aralan ng mas malalim kung saan nanggagaling yung pagtawag sa kanya ng kuya, term of endearment ba yan or metaphorical as in kuya=protector/respected male or authority-figure for her... So dyan lahat talaga nagsimula ang problema..

Sa aking palagay.. Women require men to think like them: go beyond what's visible and easily discernible... Problema hindi naman tayo sing-talino nila to be able to distinguish kailan sila literal (pag sinabing hindi, talagang hindi) at kailan symbolical (pag sinabing hindi, ang ibig nyang sabihin ay oo plus plus)... Kung naging honest at direcho na lang si ate, wala na tayong sinosolve na kuya mystery dito... Kunsabagay, yan din naman ang nakakaattract minsan sa atin, pag nakakachallenge si ate.. Pero sa kabilang banda, bakit naman pahihirapin pa ang mga bagay bagay.. Gusto ni kuya si ate kaya gumagawa sya ng paraan para ipaalam ito kay ate.. Si ate naman, gusto nya si kuya kaya gumagawa sya ng paraan para lituhin lalo si kuya... Nga nga.   may kasabihan nga, ang nagsasama ng tapat, ay nagsasama ng maluwat. Pero gaya din ng nasabi ni bolt, kung gusto mo talaga sya e kailangan mong tiisin at pagdaanan ang mga mind games at obstacle course nila ate na ganyan (eg., hwag kang magtxt/tatawag--kahit torture ito para sainyong 2, para malaman mo kung mamimiss ka... Or u can just ask outright--namiss mo ba ako? She'll probably say no, though she means yes... )

Nakakapanghinayang kung hindi sila magkakatuluyan kahit gusto nila ang isat isa, dahil lang sa maliit na bagay gaya ng pagtawag kay TS ng kuya... At syempre na kay kuya lagi ang sisi dahil slow at babagal bagal sya o nawawala ang mga balls nya. Lalaki nga naman ang dapat na sumugal at tumalon sa bangin--na hindi naman talaga bangin kundi kama ng rosas ang babagsakan nya, sinabi lang ni ate na bangin para sukatin ang kanyang pagka-lalaki... Bakit kailangan sukatin ang pagkalalaki at bilangin ang bola nya? Sina ate freefront lamang ang nakakaalam... Still we love our women because they are complex beings so, go get her TS.. soldier on! goodluck n lang sir..

OT: awayin ko si vicces

ang orig: anong hinihintay mo? Pasko?!? <<< best said when December is 11 months away

yun na, sinabi sa akin yan days bago magpasko-- so ang na isip ko yung literal na magpapasko na..

i take offense on the balls-collector comment

fine ayaw mo ng balls-collector.. How about ball-buster?

Who better to understand men from, if not from men themselves? Let's not forget to add that those friends know for certain I'm not after their danglies. So......

Yes to understand men, better ask other men and u get the whole truth and nothing but da truth.. I dont even think its privileged information..

But to understand women who do we ask? Only women understand women, and most often, they dont even like each other very much, do they?

[Halftrick]

thanks guys sa comments and opinions..kami na.. 

[bloomberg]

thanks guys sa comments and opinions..kami na.. 

Kayo na...ibig mong sabihin surender na si ate?  Naglaglag na ng bandilang puti?  Ha Ha! That's good news!! Kuwentohan mo naman kami kung paano mo nasungkit ang puso ni ate..congrats!!

[vicces]

 
Nice... Pwede na magpacanton...

[singkit_1588]

thanks guys sa comments and opinions..kami na.. 

ayos..
congratz/...

uu nga, kwento naman, anu nangyari?

[Prospera]

@halftrick: So is this the girl you asked about in another thread who's also a single mom?

So love won out, huh.  Good on you; hope it works out.

[Halftrick]

@halftrick: So is this the girl you asked about in another thread who's also a single mom?

So love won out, huh.  Good on you; hope it works out.

yup..thats her... simple lang namn ehh i'm just the one who's making things look more complicated..yeah other people might judge me, or her or both of us pero...tapos na yon ehh..nagkamali xa and d ko dn nman kasalanan na sa kanya ko mainlove dba..hehe 

[bloomberg]

yup..thats her... simple lang namn ehh i'm just the one who's making things look more complicated..yeah other people might judge me, or her or both of us pero...tapos na yon ehh..nagkamali xa and d ko dn nman kasalanan na sa kanya ko mainlove dba..hehe 

Ayos lang yan @Halftrick...saludo ako sayo.  Sana maging masaya at maginhawa ang buhay ninyong dalawa - siempre kasama na rin yung anak ng GF mo.  Congrats again!!

[regor]

Nice meron pala talagang ganun.., may lesson akong nakuha...

[freefront]

yup..thats her... simple lang namn ehh i'm just the one who's making things look more complicated..yeah other people might judge me, or her or both of us pero...tapos na yon ehh..nagkamali xa and d ko dn nman kasalanan na sa kanya ko mainlove dba..hehe 

   <<< i was like that  Feels good to be out of the "fog", eh? Let me shoulder bump you, thump your back, knuckle rub your head or whatever it is you guys do to show approval and congratulations#i feel so proud sniff

[mikoangelo]

^after reading your post......

nagkaroon bigla ng malaking katanungan sa chatzy.....

my nag suggest pa na gawa ng thread para lang tanungin ka....

and the thread title should have been...

Bakit nga ba wala pang aswa si epep?? 

please answer the question para maka move on na mga tao dun ..