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zaragorath

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on: Jan 29, 2012, 09:23 PM
Here's the story:

You are a student for sometime in a certain college, you are single and looking for a relationship, so the moment you see someone you know, you speak to that person. As you walk to school, you see a girl sitting there waiting for someone or something, but she isn't doing anything. You talk to her and then you realize that something about this person seems to attract you, you come closer you guys chit chat a bit, and then, you realize that you like this person but there seems to be something off, you feel a different or rather strange bizzare vibe. You leave with her number, you guys text a bit, for some reason she seems to be replying to your texts continuously. This further seems more bizzare. You guys go on a date to a fastfood place. You guys barely know each other then suddenly she holds your hand saying that you would have held hers anyway and she was just getting to the point. You guys go out walking or spending time together but the weird thing is. She doesnt seem to communicate with you anymore after you guys meet. She could go on for a week without communicating. you decide to ask her if she is in a relationship she says no, but she wants to be in. After sometime together has passed, you ask her if she wants to be with you na, she says it is up to her to say whether she wants to or not. Do you still continue to pursue this whole roller coaster ride in the hopes it will be something more?

After sometime, she tells you that she had a lot of flings, about 8 shallow ones that barely lasted about 1 month. Her last one was with a guy that lasted for 2 years, yet they werent declared. The guy was not communicating with her and they only met to make out. Suddenly, she says i came along and that she and the guy are quits already because he doesnt treat her well.
« Last Edit: Jan 29, 2012, 09:34 PM by zaragorath »


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Reply #1 on: Feb 15, 2012, 12:01 PM
Have you watched the story on a drama show? Anyway, I read it and it's a wonderful story.


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Reply #2 on: Feb 27, 2012, 02:20 PM
Nice story ...


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Reply #3 on: Jun 15, 2012, 08:57 PM
Ok lang ang ganitong set up... wag ka nga lang ma-i-in-love... masasaktan ka lang...


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Reply #4 on: Aug 15, 2012, 02:22 AM
saan kaya ganito ehehehe


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Reply #5 on: Aug 15, 2012, 05:17 AM
ingat lang HAHA


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Reply #6 on: Aug 15, 2012, 05:58 AM
i've been there..  :hihi:


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Reply #7 on: Aug 16, 2012, 01:09 AM
i've been there..  :hihi:

naka-8 din po kayo? :D


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Reply #8 on: Aug 16, 2012, 09:02 AM
^hahahaha. noooo.. uhmm 1 lang... almost 1 year din kami.. natigil lang nung nagkaboyfriend na ko.. lol


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Reply #9 on: Aug 16, 2012, 11:45 AM
^hahahaha. noooo.. uhmm 1 lang... almost 1 year din kami.. natigil lang nung nagkaboyfriend na ko.. lol

As in date-date lang or... you know... :watchuthink:
Tagal nun for that set-up ah, I mean, 1 year na tumagal yun. Walang nag fall sa inyo?
Curious lang, does your bf know about that? He's cool with it?

Pwede rin ang topic na ito sa thread na ito: Pseudo Relationships or "Parang Kayo, Pero Hindi" - nasubukan nyo na ba?

http://www.pinoymoneytalk.com/forum/index.php?topic=39553.0
« Last Edit: Aug 16, 2012, 11:48 AM by wiggy »


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Reply #10 on: Aug 16, 2012, 02:28 PM
^we date, we **x, we care for each other... nung naging fwb kami may girlfriend pa sya nun, then after 2 months nagbreak sila (pero di ako dahilan)... so ayun parehas kami single... :hihi: kaya masaya sa part namen parehas.

Actually, we celebrate our monthsaries.. so "pseudo relationship" nga kung tutuusin.. pero hanggang ganun lang... wala naman nafall, we don't talk about leveling up our relationship..

My current bf, wala siyang alam.. at ayaw niya ng nagkukuwento about sa past. :)


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Reply #11 on: Aug 16, 2012, 03:01 PM
^ Juicy ang kwento mo ah haha. At ano naman DAW ang dahilan ng break-up nila? Sabagay mas libre siyang sumama sa iyo pag single siya... :watchuthink:

My current bf, wala siyang alam.. at ayaw niya ng nagkukuwento about sa past. :)

Madalas pag ganyan yung guy, kasi may mas matinding pasts experiences siya... Well madalas, hindi lahat.  :hihi: Oh basta, huwag na kayo bumalik sa dati ng fwb mo, may bf ka na kasi.


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Reply #12 on: Aug 16, 2012, 03:06 PM
 :cool2: you should know your limitation pag nasa ganito ka, the first time this happen to me muntik na ko maki-pag break sa legit na gf ko para sa fb ko...rules are the pillars para mag work, once you are willing to brake the rules,the problem will start and eventually deadly...


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Reply #13 on: Aug 16, 2012, 03:21 PM
napansin ko lagi nandito sa thread na ito si wiggy, napasilip tuloy ako. :hihi:

si TS, ung first paragraph nya “you” ang ginagamit nya, tapos yung last sentence -- “I” na bigla, based on personal experience nya pala. ;)

Friends with benefits -- I always hear this and I think may mga kaibigan ako na girls na nag-engage sa ganitong relationship. One said, its not really about the good qualities that drew her to be “friends” with certain guys, but really, strictly for the “benefits”. Parang if men can do it, women can do too, if they so choose. I don’t judge her, coz she’s a dear friend of mine and I will be the one na masasabihang old-fashioned if I don’t at least keep an open mind.  but I just remind her to always know her boundaries/limits, keep her emotions in check, and always be SAFE.
« Last Edit: Aug 16, 2012, 03:24 PM by bajoyjoy »


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Reply #14 on: Aug 16, 2012, 03:30 PM
Ok, ingat lng po HIV AIDS medyo matagal pa ang cure ;)


 


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