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What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT

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hindi pwedeng magkaroon ng love without respect, pag walang respect hindi love yun kundi lust, I can respect the President, or the policeman or my teacher without loving him/her so I firmly believe na love is more important, in fact according to the bible - " love is long suffering and is kind, love does not envy, . . . love believe all things, hope for all things, and endures all things (1 Corinthians 13:4-7) Those are things that can never be said about respect


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I truly agree with everyone that Love is created due out from Respect. If any of one of them collapse then they fall apart together.


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Respect comes first, if you don't respect each other then how can you love each other


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I agree.

And I think it is practical that you go with someone whom you love and who loves you. To be with someone you do not love, it seems to me, is not respecting the person.

You can respect someone but you do not have to marry him or her. Make him your friends.
Be with the one you love and respect him or her for the rest of your life.

Relationships are important part of human existence. This is a couple-oriented world, so whether you like it or not it is better to have a partner (man or woman).
In my opinion, respect is more important because you can be with somebody whom you respect even if you do not love him/her.
When respect goes, everything goes.
It is better to have both because the relationship is stronger.
You can not love somebody without respecting him, but you can respect somebody without loving him.
I married my husband because I love him and was able to learn to respect him, now, I have both, so our relationship is better and can not be withered by anything.


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Respect without respect there will always be miss understanding, and without respect there is no love at all



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Parehas. Dapat sa isang relasyon meron talagang respect and love para tumagal.


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naalala ko tuloy yung isang scene sa isang pinoy movie,,, nag aaway ang mag ina,,, sabi ng ina sa anak "wag mo naman akong tratuhin ng ganito anak,,, kahit respeto man lang,,," --- ibig sabihin separable sila??

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oopsss,, baka may mag react,,, relationship pa rin naman yan di ba? mother-daughter relationship,, ehekhekhek,,,


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LOVE
If you love the person Respect will follow, that is if you really love the person. .
and you can RESPECT anybody without "love".


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I agree that both are important. But it is true that you can respect someone without love. But true love brings with it respect.


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Respect. If you love that person, you will be able to respect him.


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If we don't get respect from the one we love, one day she or he will love us less and leave us. If she or he respect us, one day we will be loved, I think.


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yup walang kwenta talaga ang love kung wala kayong respeto
sa isat isa.
mag hihiwalay lang kayo nang maaga.
pag may respeto naman kayo.
ang kalalabasan lang yan mag tatagal kayo
o kaya
mapupunta kayo sa simbahan.
haha


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for me respect comes first, If you can't respect him/her, then you cant love him/her


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both sila need eh, may point naman na you can respect almost everybody, but that dosen't mean you love them.

may point din naman na if you respect a person then love will follow, kasi if dont respect him/her its hard to love him/her


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love...

u simply cannot love a person w/o respecting that person...

but u can respect a person but not necessarily love that person...


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LOVE syempre!

Hindi puedeng LOVE without RESPECT
AT kung walang respect Hindi mo siya LOVE.

Pero Puede rin RESPECT without LOVE!
 :rakenrol:


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LOVE syempre!

Hindi puedeng LOVE without RESPECT
AT kung walang respect Hindi mo siya LOVE.

Pero Puede rin RESPECT without LOVE!
 :rakenrol:

Yes, you're right!!! Respect can only be done solo.. but LOVE without Respect, I can't be..
Like kapag nakakita ka isang tao na nirerespeto.. rerspetuhin mo sya.. pero hindi mo sya LOVE..
Pero kung sabihin mo na LOVE mo isang tao pero hindi mo naman nirerespeto.. hindi mo totoong LOVE..

Respectfully yours,
BFXGeneralConsultant
« Last Edit: Jan 18, 2012, 05:17 PM by BFXGeneralConsultant »


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Just my opinion.

The best way to show and judge how each party love and respect for each other is thru love making.

The more products produce by the manufacturing firm, the more love and respect is given by management.


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Love, you could love your daugther or son, and restrict them, you love them but you dont respect their privacy and free will.
Respect, i respect my opponent in battle, if i dont respect someone i basically dont give recognition to them; they arent important.

Combined, love is what keeps the relationship together, respect makes sure you are both equal, you see each other fairly. The most important thing in all of relationships is that you respect yourself, otherwise if the relationship isnt mutual, its going to go downhill from there.


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:welcome:
for me love and respect is important in one relationship
but if pa2piliin ako, para sken is respect ksi kailangan sa isang
relationship un may respeto sa isat isa pra mging mganda un
klabsan ng pagma2halan nila ndi lang puro love need din ng respect for each other...
 :applause: :applause: :applause:

 :thankyou:


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In relationship, Love and Respect is the most important .. If you love somebody respect her or him.. If Respect her or him you love that person .. 


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in my POV i will choose respect... kasi minsan si LOVE ang nagdidictate nyan ang puso at hinde ang isip... sa isang mag asawa or in any relationship minsan di maiiwasan na mananamlay ang pagsasama, wat matter most only is the RESPECT that they have kaya wlang tird party or di ka gagawa ng isang bagay na alam mo na makakasakit ka or hnde mo rerespetohin ang ka partner mo. when you showed respect you showed love but love alone cannot show respect.... may narinig akong isang msg sa kasal that mawala na daw lahat sa mag asawa wag lang ang respeto.... kasi pag nawala ang respeto wala na din ang lahat... ang gulo ko noh.  :wall: its lyk na pag sa bahay si lalaki is lalaki at si babae nman si babae di pwed magkapalit kasi pag ngyari un lumiliit ang respeto ng pagsasama or ng sa isat isa kaya minsan doon lumalabas ng problema low self esteem or din na nagkakaintindihan kaya its either one of them will go to other person that they  respect them  and eventually love.


in summary respect is one of the fundamental in  a relationship... Loves comes along only if you fulfilled or you showed respect to your partner. Subukan mong gaguhin ang partner mo lets see if love ka pa nya :scratch:


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there's a book i read..
title is "LOVE and RESPECT"
both are important..

it should come hand on hand.. :)


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Love... because it is the root of all good things. Sometimes even bad
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Love is the most important, respect will just follow if you truly love that person.  :hihi:


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you canot love a person that is not respect worthy ,, and how you could respect a person if shes cheating...imposible mong mahalen ang tao na dinadaya ka..


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where there is loyalty & honesty comes trust, reputation & respect...
« Last Edit: May 15, 2013, 03:59 AM by spidermannn »


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^ I beg to differ.  Loyalty is an offshoot of Trust and Respect.  Build Trust and Respect first before you earn loyalty. 

Honesty is always one of the foundation before you earn trust and respect.


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you do not truly love somebody if you do not respect him/her...so LOVE it is (not speaking about intimacy)!


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i think it doesn't matter if we choose love or respect..
loyalty, honesty, trust, etc

ang mahalaga is to have all this in a relationship.. :)


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both needed...usually hnd mag last ang relationship if you don't respect one another.


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I've seen love without respect. Yung tipong ang dialogue eh, " mahal na mahal kasi kita kaya ginagawa ko yan."

Heto lang ang sa akin: One or both of those people involved in that kind of "LOVE" should be put in jail. Too many collateral damage, on people around them( specially children who don't have the capacity to duck and hide everytime the sh*t hits the fan), their source of livelihood and World Peace  :taaskilay:



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I don't know why they call it heartbreak. I feel like every part of my body is broken.
-missy something something (or pwede rin si ai ai de las alas :) )

#hayunoh!


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Hahaha, updated sa show biz happenings si bos vic.. #ikawna #boyabunda  :harhar:


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I don't know why they call it heartbreak. I feel like every part of my body is broken.
-missy something something (or pwede rin si ai ai de las alas :) )

#hayunoh!
missing something?
or someone?hehe :)

peace on earth po.


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The most important thing in marrige in friendship in other relashionship is a mutual understanding. It's a mother of love, respect etc. if you understand your husband, as example, that we look in one direction. 



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So one can exist without the other?
Oh yes definitely. Love is a very tricky and vague subject matter. Ang respect kase ineearn but love can be given to anyone or something.


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I've seen love without respect. Yung tipong ang dialogue eh, " mahal na mahal kasi kita kaya ginagawa ko yan."

Heto lang ang sa akin: One or both of those people involved in that kind of "LOVE" should be put in jail. Too many collateral damage, on people around them( specially children who don't have the capacity to duck and hide everytime the sh*t hits the fan), their source of livelihood and World Peace  :taaskilay:

Hindi na pagmamahal yan kasakiman na yan and jealousy is one thing its not love.


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I've seen love without respect. Yung tipong ang dialogue eh, " mahal na mahal kasi kita kaya ginagawa ko yan."


What is the "ginagawa" referring to?


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The most important thing in marrige in friendship in other relashionship is a mutual understanding. It's a mother of love, respect etc. if you understand your husband, as example, that we look in one direction.

Understanding is not acceptance, much less love.
It is also not approval nor respect.


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What is the "ginagawa" referring to?

I think it refers to things that the other partner is doing for the other partner that may be without consent or blessing of the other party which could be perceived negatively.


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I've seen love without respect. Yung tipong ang dialogue eh, " mahal na mahal kasi kita kaya ginagawa ko yan."


What is the "ginagawa" referring to?

I think it refers to things that the other partner is doing for the other partner that may be without consent or blessing of the other party which could be perceived negatively.

Hmmm ... maybe. Sana FF can clarify.
I don't get what she meant eh.
« Last Edit: Jul 12, 2016, 03:12 PM by wilch23 »


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Love or Respect? For me, TRUST is on the top of the list. In every type of relationship, for it to work you need trust.



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IMHO, you can show respect without loving the person. But you cannot say that you really love a person without respecting him/her.


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Love fades, same as respect..
Not necesary. Although it's common attraction grove to a deeper type of love IF a suiting partner is chosen.
E g my parents fell in love when they were 18 and 16 yo and stayed so, until father died at age 83, with a small dip when they were a bit over 30, I suppouse because mother was bored and got some depressed when she got pregnant again when she had planed to start working outside home again.

Concerning respect, my parents never had any harder arguments,
although father got some dejected sometimes back when he tried to teach mother budget, until he gave up    :hihi:  and started giving her the money she could spend that week.   After mother started employment again, father paid the bills and mother the food and could do anything she want with the rest, so then it became easy to avoid disagreements.


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Love and respect are both important in any relationship. According to the Bible, love covers a multitude of sin, so love is the most important of all virtues. If you love someone, you'll definitely respect him or her. Love breeds trust and respect, all of which are strong pillars of any given relationship


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Love is the most important thing in any kind of relationship. If you love someone,he/she will definitely earn your respect. For example, in a marriage situation, it is love that makes the man to respect his wife and makes the woman to submit to her husband


 


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