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Title: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: mlangseth on Feb 19, 2009, 03:56 AM
Relationships are important part of human existence. This is a couple-oriented world, so whether you like it or not it is better to have a partner (man or woman).
In my opinion, respect is more important because you can be with somebody whom you respect even if you do not love him/her.
When respect goes, everything goes.
It is better to have both because the relationship is stronger.
You can not love somebody without respecting him, but you can respect somebody without loving him.
I married my husband because I love him and was able to learn to respect him, now, I have both, so our relationship is better and can not be withered by anything.
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Post by: ikariamph on Mar 11, 2009, 11:15 AM
i think both you need love and respect sa relationship. :D
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Post by: mystic8 on Mar 11, 2009, 12:28 PM
I think love and respect have its own unique ways for the relationship to grow and surpass all the trials that both of you might experience. Hindi pwedeng mawala ang isa....
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Post by: entrepinaynay on Mar 11, 2009, 12:58 PM
mahirap kapag wala ng respect sa isang relationship. kahit gaano mo pa kamahal yung partner mo, kung tingin mo di ka na nya nirerespeto, itutuloy mo pa ba relasyon nyo?
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Post by: SirYuri90 on Mar 11, 2009, 02:28 PM
basta wlang bastusan! doctor lab, where r u? nid ka namin dito. :cool2:
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Post by: tutoy on Mar 11, 2009, 02:40 PM


read mode lang muna ako, tutoy pa kasi ako eh!! :hihi:
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Post by: oyetken on Mar 26, 2009, 02:18 PM
keep love and respect para tumagal ang isang relationship. :cool2:
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Post by: networm on Mar 26, 2009, 03:02 PM
Mahirap paghihiwalayin yan dalawa. Lagi dapat magkasama yan lalo na sa mag-asawa.

Tama, you can be someone you respect even if you don't him/her. This might be true with your business partners, friends and mentors. But for couples/mag-asawa, dapat both are always go altogether.
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Post by: jrpiquero on Mar 26, 2009, 03:26 PM
hindi ka mahal ng tao kung hindi ka nirerespeto and vise versa  :harhar:
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Post by: workoshore on Mar 26, 2009, 03:45 PM
They both come hand in hand...if they go opposite, plastik-an na ang tawag diyan... :watchuthink:

cheers... :cool2:
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Post by: Amberthe on Mar 26, 2009, 10:24 PM
Yup I agree. They should co-exist.
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Post by: uranium698 on Mar 28, 2009, 07:13 PM
plus natin ang trust  :applause:
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Post by: dioj on Aug 20, 2009, 05:42 AM
For me, love is a very broad word and according to the Bible, in that great discourse of St. Paul on love, 1 Corinthians 13 of the New Testament, love is the greatest of the virtues. And I believe you cannot love anybody (as God mean when He created the word 'love') withyout respecting him. For me, love is better.
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Post by: Shaun on Aug 20, 2009, 09:55 AM
love, respect, trust...dapat me kasamang lust.  :D
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Post by: pulubing_palaboy on Aug 20, 2009, 11:53 AM
seems impossible to have love without respect
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Post by: DonT on Aug 20, 2009, 12:11 PM
Both are important...however
You cannot Love without Respect...but you can Respect without Loving.
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Post by: pulubing_palaboy on Aug 20, 2009, 12:22 PM
^^^ precisely
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Post by: rhipolito on Aug 20, 2009, 04:01 PM
for me its both.  :D
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Post by: dioj on Aug 21, 2009, 05:26 AM

love, respect, trust...dapat me kasamang lust.  :D
yeah I agree with you shaun, importante yung lust if it is between a guy and a gal and medyo di pa uugod-ugod he he he
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Post by: mlangseth on Aug 21, 2009, 06:33 AM
maski uugod-ugod pwede pa oi :hihi:

Kapag humupa na ang lust.. respect na lang natitira.. pwede pa rin kayong magkasama.
A lot of people who have been married for a long time share the secret :respect daw, maski hindi na nila love.. wala na ring lust   :D
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Post by: lonely_planet on Aug 21, 2009, 01:10 PM
Love because respect follows if love is genuine..
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Post by: Langerhans on Aug 21, 2009, 06:34 PM

It's like the question, "which came first, the egg or the chicken?"  :hihi:
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Post by: Shaun on Aug 21, 2009, 09:19 PM

Love because respect follows if love is genuine..


in a perfect world...yes.  :watchuthink:
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Post by: tops5450 on Aug 21, 2009, 10:37 PM
pwede po bang sumagaot ng "or"  :hihi: wala po kasi akong itulak kabigin sa pagpipilian eh :D
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Post by: Amberthe on Aug 22, 2009, 05:10 PM
I think its love... because if we really love someone it follows that we will respect them... dapat lang! :-*
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Post by: lonely_planet on Aug 23, 2009, 03:18 PM
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Post by: tops5450 on Aug 23, 2009, 09:44 PM
Perfect love do really exist in fairy tales :watchuthink:
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Post by: dioj on Aug 24, 2009, 07:31 AM

Perfect love do really exist in fairy tales :watchuthink:
Do you think Jesus Christ is a fairy tale character?
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Post by: dioj on Aug 24, 2009, 07:35 AM

Love because respect follows if love is genuine..



there's no such thing as a PERFECT world, but when it comes to love a negative thing becomes the perfect thing though
I agree with these two statements by lonelyp
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Post by: tops5450 on Aug 24, 2009, 08:15 AM

Do you think Jesus Christ is a fairy tale character?


Please tell us po what is the connection of Jesus Christ sa Perfect Love po :thankyou:
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Post by: lonely_planet on Aug 24, 2009, 08:22 PM

Do you think Jesus Christ is a fairy tale character?


I absolutely agree with you too dioj.. :applause: Jesus Christ continually shows us HIS UNENDING AND PERFECT love despite all OUR shortcomings.(AMEN). He entirely embraces all sinners and forgives them(and that includes me)...I think the concept of a PERFECT love depends on each and everyone of US so there is NOTHING to argue about the way each and everyone of us see it. :D
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Post by: tops5450 on Aug 24, 2009, 08:28 PM
Bat napunta sa religion ang usapan :hihi:
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Post by: lonely_planet on Aug 24, 2009, 08:37 PM
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Post by: joat on Aug 24, 2009, 09:12 PM
respect breeds love : proven fact time and time again. love alone deteriorates once trials come. respect carries you through because it involves the whole of a person including love.
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Post by: puberer on Aug 24, 2009, 09:18 PM
very well said!   :applause:



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Post by: tops5450 on Aug 24, 2009, 11:34 PM
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Post by: mlangseth on Aug 25, 2009, 12:42 AM
Kudos to Mr Joat.. He hit it in the head ! :-*
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Post by: arts24 on Aug 25, 2009, 12:54 AM
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Post by: mlangseth on Aug 25, 2009, 01:40 AM
 ^^ Only you can answer that question... depends sa situation.

Love fades, same as respect..
If the person has offended you to the bones, don't you think your respect will be diminished or lost? Respect begets respect..
People fall in and out of love all the time, so, may hangganan..kaya may annullment sa Pinas and divorce sa ibang nasyon...
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Post by: marcopolo on Aug 25, 2009, 02:11 AM
^^Siguro kung mangyari man yan meron pa rin maiiwan na respect kahit wala ng love.  Even divorced/separated couples still have some degree of respect to one another.  

Which means to say that respect is more enduring than love although it does not bind couples together.  What binds is love so I think love is more important.

Secondary na lang yung respect.
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Post by: dioj on Aug 25, 2009, 05:32 AM

respect breeds love : proven fact time and time again. love alone deteriorates once trials come. respect carries you through because it involves the whole of a person including love.

Kudos to Mr Joat.. He hit it in the head ! :-*
I beg to disagree with Joat and Mam Mlangseth, you might be confusing love in its purest sense with sensual love and lust, I am talking about agape or divine love or the genuine love of a husband for his wife or the tru love a man has for his parents or siblings.
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Post by: starforce on Oct 02, 2009, 04:09 PM
For me both are important. In my case I don't consider love as Love if there is no respect.
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Post by: 2d0k on Oct 02, 2009, 08:59 PM
one is indispensable without the other.. love and respect walks hand in hand.. :D
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Post by: iheartwayen on May 23, 2010, 12:14 AM
it should always be both  :-*
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Post by: mlangseth on May 23, 2010, 08:37 PM
^^ Exactly..it is like a horse and carriage...must go together to work.
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Post by: freefront on May 23, 2010, 09:18 PM
Respect. I'll take that anytime.
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Post by: metanoia23 on May 25, 2010, 09:28 AM
Respect is important
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Post by: ra_84 on Jul 29, 2010, 09:32 PM
i dont think one can exist without the other.... :)
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Post by: freefront on Jul 30, 2010, 02:12 PM
S'plain why some say they love someone then proceed to knock them around. On the other hand, love will flourish with respect thrown in.

or, there is crazy love. But, is there crazy respect?
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Post by: vivienshoshanna on Jul 30, 2010, 03:07 PM
i choose both. apparently, there's no need to choose, for the other is nothing without the other one.
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Post by: jleeton on Aug 11, 2010, 07:57 PM
Both Love and Respect to have a happy relationship :applause:
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Post by: tops5450 on Aug 11, 2010, 09:11 PM
Ang tanong sa thread na ito ay maikokompara sa tanong na "which came first egg or the chicken?  :watchuthink:
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Post by: magnus on Aug 12, 2010, 09:49 AM
Respect is earned. Love is natural.
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Post by: jasmarie on Aug 12, 2010, 04:32 PM

I'll go for respect.  Hirap mahalin ang taong di mo nirerespeto.
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Post by: AbysmalSpecter on Aug 12, 2010, 09:54 PM
Respect.  Kasi I can never love someone who I feel does not respect me.
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Post by: seescandy on Aug 17, 2010, 12:07 AM
why don't we put all in though they're different...? :D
i rather choose LOVE.... :thankyou:
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Post by: mlangseth on Aug 21, 2010, 06:52 AM
you can respect somebody without loving him...example I respect the President of the USA..i do not love him.

But you cannot love somebody without respecting her/him.. like, I love and respect my husband, thus, our relationship is stronger. My husband respects  me for being me, and loves me for what I am.
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Post by: jodie079 on Aug 22, 2010, 03:45 AM
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Post by: nel on Aug 22, 2010, 07:05 PM
Respect...walang halaga ang pagmamahalan na walang respeto sa isa't-isa...
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Post by: jeorgecash on Sep 08, 2010, 04:13 PM
These are always a combination. You are only a great pretender when loving someone without respect. If you truly show your love to someone that is already a form of respect.
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Post by: Fazer_123 on Sep 09, 2010, 03:40 AM
Love is the status of relationship between persons and respect is the most important part of this relationship.Without respect love doesn't exits.you have to respect your lover if you really do true love him/her.
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Post by: kevind on Sep 18, 2010, 02:53 PM
According to me RESPECT is more important than LOVE.
If you respect your partner than love increases itself.
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Post by: mlangseth on Sep 18, 2010, 09:06 PM
^^^  Lovely :applause: :thankyou:
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Post by: oca1101uk on Sep 19, 2010, 04:37 AM
Respect comes first! :thankyou:
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Post by: tops5450 on Sep 20, 2010, 12:17 AM
accdg to some love is the by-product of respect :book:
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Post by: piameg on Sep 20, 2010, 12:50 AM
pareho yan important, walang competition kung love ba or respect ang panalo heheh di naman sila nag aaway eh hehe :hihi:
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Post by: alder on Oct 05, 2010, 01:52 PM
if you love somebody respect will follow  :D sabi nga " Pagibig ay nagtatakip ng lahat ng kakulangan" :cool2:
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Post by: tops5450 on Oct 05, 2010, 04:46 PM
inseparable ba ang dalawang iyan :hihi:
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Post by: mlangseth on Oct 05, 2010, 08:39 PM
yes, inseparable talaga... :-*

How can you love somebody that you do not respect? :watchuthink:
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Post by: e-milyonaryo on Oct 06, 2010, 02:16 AM
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Post by: dioj on Oct 06, 2010, 03:01 AM
hindi pwedeng magkaroon ng love without respect, pag walang respect hindi love yun kundi lust, I can respect the President, or the policeman or my teacher without loving him/her so I firmly believe na love is more important, in fact according to the bible - " love is long suffering and is kind, love does not envy, . . . love believe all things, hope for all things, and endures all things (1 Corinthians 13:4-7) Those are things that can never be said about respect
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Post by: elmostreet on Jan 04, 2011, 10:46 AM
I truly agree with everyone that Love is created due out from Respect. If any of one of them collapse then they fall apart together.
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Post by: cianojean on Jan 05, 2011, 03:47 PM
Respect comes first, if you don't respect each other then how can you love each other
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Post by: Jefmenguin on Jan 06, 2011, 06:43 AM
I agree.

And I think it is practical that you go with someone whom you love and who loves you. To be with someone you do not love, it seems to me, is not respecting the person.

You can respect someone but you do not have to marry him or her. Make him your friends.
Be with the one you love and respect him or her for the rest of your life.

Relationships are important part of human existence. This is a couple-oriented world, so whether you like it or not it is better to have a partner (man or woman).
In my opinion, respect is more important because you can be with somebody whom you respect even if you do not love him/her.
When respect goes, everything goes.
It is better to have both because the relationship is stronger.
You can not love somebody without respecting him, but you can respect somebody without loving him.
I married my husband because I love him and was able to learn to respect him, now, I have both, so our relationship is better and can not be withered by anything.
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Post by: wisekid on Jan 11, 2011, 10:56 AM
Respect without respect there will always be miss understanding, and without respect there is no love at all
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Post by: foxy on Jan 27, 2011, 03:17 PM
^ I agree with you
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Post by: aabrillo123 on May 28, 2011, 06:06 PM
Parehas. Dapat sa isang relasyon meron talagang respect and love para tumagal.
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Post by: electroniccigarettes on Jun 09, 2011, 12:05 PM
Love and Respect.. hindi puweding hindi mag kasama yun
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Post by: palailai on Jun 09, 2011, 12:19 PM
BOTH...
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Post by: arnel on Jun 09, 2011, 12:24 PM
naalala ko tuloy yung isang scene sa isang pinoy movie,,, nag aaway ang mag ina,,, sabi ng ina sa anak "wag mo naman akong tratuhin ng ganito anak,,, kahit respeto man lang,,," --- ibig sabihin separable sila??

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oopsss,, baka may mag react,,, relationship pa rin naman yan di ba? mother-daughter relationship,, ehekhekhek,,,
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Post by: ryknox on Jun 09, 2011, 12:52 PM
LOVE
If you love the person Respect will follow, that is if you really love the person. .
and you can RESPECT anybody without "love".
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Post by: silent_investor on Jun 10, 2011, 05:01 PM
I agree that both are important. But it is true that you can respect someone without love. But true love brings with it respect.
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Post by: gatsmavi on Jun 10, 2011, 07:12 PM
its better to be trusted than being loved
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Post by: ajkj on Jun 24, 2011, 03:15 PM
Respect. If you love that person, you will be able to respect him.
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Post by: bullionfk on Aug 08, 2011, 04:30 PM
If we don't get respect from the one we love, one day she or he will love us less and leave us. If she or he respect us, one day we will be loved, I think.
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Post by: bluerey on Aug 17, 2011, 10:27 AM
yup walang kwenta talaga ang love kung wala kayong respeto
sa isat isa.
mag hihiwalay lang kayo nang maaga.
pag may respeto naman kayo.
ang kalalabasan lang yan mag tatagal kayo
o kaya
mapupunta kayo sa simbahan.
haha
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Post by: shark on Dec 19, 2011, 03:51 PM
for me respect comes first, If you can't respect him/her, then you cant love him/her
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Post by: earthrabbit on Jan 18, 2012, 04:05 PM
both sila need eh, may point naman na you can respect almost everybody, but that dosen't mean you love them.

may point din naman na if you respect a person then love will follow, kasi if dont respect him/her its hard to love him/her
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Post by: SAGAD on Jan 18, 2012, 04:15 PM
love...

u simply cannot love a person w/o respecting that person...

but u can respect a person but not necessarily love that person...
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Post by: joconcepcion on Jan 18, 2012, 04:28 PM
LOVE syempre!

Hindi puedeng LOVE without RESPECT
AT kung walang respect Hindi mo siya LOVE.

Pero Puede rin RESPECT without LOVE!
 :rakenrol:
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Post by: BFXGeneralConsultant on Jan 18, 2012, 05:14 PM
LOVE syempre!

Hindi puedeng LOVE without RESPECT
AT kung walang respect Hindi mo siya LOVE.

Pero Puede rin RESPECT without LOVE!
 :rakenrol:

Yes, you're right!!! Respect can only be done solo.. but LOVE without Respect, I can't be..
Like kapag nakakita ka isang tao na nirerespeto.. rerspetuhin mo sya.. pero hindi mo sya LOVE..
Pero kung sabihin mo na LOVE mo isang tao pero hindi mo naman nirerespeto.. hindi mo totoong LOVE..

Respectfully yours,
BFXGeneralConsultant
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Post by: Archcavalier on Jan 28, 2012, 10:28 PM
Just my opinion.

The best way to show and judge how each party love and respect for each other is thru love making.

The more products produce by the manufacturing firm, the more love and respect is given by management.
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Post by: zaragorath on Jan 29, 2012, 08:27 PM
Love, you could love your daugther or son, and restrict them, you love them but you dont respect their privacy and free will.
Respect, i respect my opponent in battle, if i dont respect someone i basically dont give recognition to them; they arent important.

Combined, love is what keeps the relationship together, respect makes sure you are both equal, you see each other fairly. The most important thing in all of relationships is that you respect yourself, otherwise if the relationship isnt mutual, its going to go downhill from there.
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Post by: krsitine020 on Feb 24, 2012, 11:18 AM
 
:welcome:
for me love and respect is important in one relationship
but if pa2piliin ako, para sken is respect ksi kailangan sa isang
relationship un may respeto sa isat isa pra mging mganda un
klabsan ng pagma2halan nila ndi lang puro love need din ng respect for each other...
 :applause: :applause: :applause:

 :thankyou:
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Post by: hoodlums on Feb 24, 2012, 11:52 AM
In relationship, Love and Respect is the most important .. If you love somebody respect her or him.. If Respect her or him you love that person .. 
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Post by: daphne on May 14, 2013, 09:26 AM
in my POV i will choose respect... kasi minsan si LOVE ang nagdidictate nyan ang puso at hinde ang isip... sa isang mag asawa or in any relationship minsan di maiiwasan na mananamlay ang pagsasama, wat matter most only is the RESPECT that they have kaya wlang tird party or di ka gagawa ng isang bagay na alam mo na makakasakit ka or hnde mo rerespetohin ang ka partner mo. when you showed respect you showed love but love alone cannot show respect.... may narinig akong isang msg sa kasal that mawala na daw lahat sa mag asawa wag lang ang respeto.... kasi pag nawala ang respeto wala na din ang lahat... ang gulo ko noh.  :wall: its lyk na pag sa bahay si lalaki is lalaki at si babae nman si babae di pwed magkapalit kasi pag ngyari un lumiliit ang respeto ng pagsasama or ng sa isat isa kaya minsan doon lumalabas ng problema low self esteem or din na nagkakaintindihan kaya its either one of them will go to other person that they  respect them  and eventually love.


in summary respect is one of the fundamental in  a relationship... Loves comes along only if you fulfilled or you showed respect to your partner. Subukan mong gaguhin ang partner mo lets see if love ka pa nya :scratch:
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Post by: singkit_1588 on May 14, 2013, 09:33 AM
there's a book i read..
title is "LOVE and RESPECT"
both are important..

it should come hand on hand.. :)
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Post by: kimerran on May 14, 2013, 11:37 AM
Love... because it is the root of all good things. Sometimes even bad
 :P
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Post by: Skyrise on May 14, 2013, 03:53 PM
Love is the most important, respect will just follow if you truly love that person.  :hihi:
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Post by: danconcon on May 14, 2013, 07:29 PM
Give respect and be loved. :think:
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Post by: spidermannn on May 15, 2013, 03:54 AM
you canot love a person that is not respect worthy ,, and how you could respect a person if shes cheating...imposible mong mahalen ang tao na dinadaya ka..
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Post by: spidermannn on May 15, 2013, 03:56 AM
where there is loyalty & honesty comes trust, reputation & respect...
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Post by: bauer on May 15, 2013, 12:25 PM
^ I beg to differ.  Loyalty is an offshoot of Trust and Respect.  Build Trust and Respect first before you earn loyalty. 

Honesty is always one of the foundation before you earn trust and respect.
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Post by: rds on May 15, 2013, 01:09 PM
you do not truly love somebody if you do not respect him/her...so LOVE it is (not speaking about intimacy)!
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Post by: singkit_1588 on May 15, 2013, 03:58 PM
i think it doesn't matter if we choose love or respect..
loyalty, honesty, trust, etc

ang mahalaga is to have all this in a relationship.. :)
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: regor on May 15, 2013, 04:04 PM
Love, respect and money.. hehe
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: foodtripper on May 24, 2013, 01:03 PM
both needed...usually hnd mag last ang relationship if you don't respect one another.
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: freefront on May 24, 2013, 07:12 PM
I've seen love without respect. Yung tipong ang dialogue eh, " mahal na mahal kasi kita kaya ginagawa ko yan."

Heto lang ang sa akin: One or both of those people involved in that kind of "LOVE" should be put in jail. Too many collateral damage, on people around them( specially children who don't have the capacity to duck and hide everytime the sh*t hits the fan), their source of livelihood and World Peace  :taaskilay:

Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: vicces on May 24, 2013, 08:25 PM
I don't know why they call it heartbreak. I feel like every part of my body is broken.
-missy something something (or pwede rin si ai ai de las alas :) )

#hayunoh!
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: kithe on May 24, 2013, 09:33 PM
Hahaha, updated sa show biz happenings si bos vic.. #ikawna #boyabunda  :harhar:
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: singkit_1588 on May 24, 2013, 09:49 PM
I don't know why they call it heartbreak. I feel like every part of my body is broken.
-missy something something (or pwede rin si ai ai de las alas :) )

#hayunoh!
missing something?
or someone?hehe :)

peace on earth po.
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: juvyjagunap on Mar 24, 2015, 10:58 AM
respect your partner first love will follow
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: Maria777 on May 24, 2016, 05:24 AM
The most important thing in marrige in friendship in other relashionship is a mutual understanding. It's a mother of love, respect etc. if you understand your husband, as example, that we look in one direction. 
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Post by: wilch23 on May 24, 2016, 09:04 AM
Hirap naman isagot yan!

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Post by: CodyDeegan on Jul 05, 2016, 11:50 AM
I think respect is more important than love in a relationship.
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: wilch23 on Jul 05, 2016, 12:39 PM
So one can exist without the other?
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: wilch23 on Jul 05, 2016, 12:39 PM
Respect without Love?
Pwede ...
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: CodyDeegan on Jul 08, 2016, 01:32 PM
So one can exist without the other?
Oh yes definitely. Love is a very tricky and vague subject matter. Ang respect kase ineearn but love can be given to anyone or something.
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Post by: Gineto on Jul 08, 2016, 04:45 PM
I've seen love without respect. Yung tipong ang dialogue eh, " mahal na mahal kasi kita kaya ginagawa ko yan."

Heto lang ang sa akin: One or both of those people involved in that kind of "LOVE" should be put in jail. Too many collateral damage, on people around them( specially children who don't have the capacity to duck and hide everytime the sh*t hits the fan), their source of livelihood and World Peace  :taaskilay:

Hindi na pagmamahal yan kasakiman na yan and jealousy is one thing its not love.
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: wilch23 on Jul 08, 2016, 05:41 PM
I've seen love without respect. Yung tipong ang dialogue eh, " mahal na mahal kasi kita kaya ginagawa ko yan."


What is the "ginagawa" referring to?
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: wilch23 on Jul 08, 2016, 05:43 PM
The most important thing in marrige in friendship in other relashionship is a mutual understanding. It's a mother of love, respect etc. if you understand your husband, as example, that we look in one direction.

Understanding is not acceptance, much less love.
It is also not approval nor respect.
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: CodyDeegan on Jul 11, 2016, 02:22 PM
What is the "ginagawa" referring to?

I think it refers to things that the other partner is doing for the other partner that may be without consent or blessing of the other party which could be perceived negatively.
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: wilch23 on Jul 12, 2016, 03:10 PM
I've seen love without respect. Yung tipong ang dialogue eh, " mahal na mahal kasi kita kaya ginagawa ko yan."


What is the "ginagawa" referring to?

I think it refers to things that the other partner is doing for the other partner that may be without consent or blessing of the other party which could be perceived negatively.

Hmmm ... maybe. Sana FF can clarify.
I don't get what she meant eh.
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: patski on Aug 18, 2016, 06:02 AM
Love or Respect? For me, TRUST is on the top of the list. In every type of relationship, for it to work you need trust.
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: CodyDeegan on Aug 22, 2016, 05:15 PM
Why do you think so?
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: wiggy on Aug 22, 2016, 05:37 PM
IMHO, you can show respect without loving the person. But you cannot say that you really love a person without respecting him/her.
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: Thomas on Aug 22, 2016, 09:07 PM
Love fades, same as respect..
Not necesary. Although it's common attraction grove to a deeper type of love IF a suiting partner is chosen.
E g my parents fell in love when they were 18 and 16 yo and stayed so, until father died at age 83, with a small dip when they were a bit over 30, I suppouse because mother was bored and got some depressed when she got pregnant again when she had planed to start working outside home again.

Concerning respect, my parents never had any harder arguments,
although father got some dejected sometimes back when he tried to teach mother budget, until he gave up    :hihi:  and started giving her the money she could spend that week.   After mother started employment again, father paid the bills and mother the food and could do anything she want with the rest, so then it became easy to avoid disagreements.
Title: Re: What is more important in a relationship: LOVE or RESPECT
Post by: Spellstalker on Jun 02, 2019, 08:45 PM
Love and respect are both important in any relationship. According to the Bible, love covers a multitude of sin, so love is the most important of all virtues. If you love someone, you'll definitely respect him or her. Love breeds trust and respect, all of which are strong pillars of any given relationship
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Post by: Niel Jhacoubs on Jun 26, 2019, 01:57 PM
When you love, you also respect.
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Post by: Jugrel on Jul 31, 2019, 01:38 AM
Love is the most important thing in any kind of relationship. If you love someone,he/she will definitely earn your respect. For example, in a marriage situation, it is love that makes the man to respect his wife and makes the woman to submit to her husband