Author Topic: After earning your first 1 or 2 million? What's next? (Read 6803 times)

mejofer · « **Reply #15 on:** Nov 30, 2007, 11:55 PM »

@richpulubi

Someday I would want to have a family of my own too. I wouldn't marry just because of sex, but because I love the woman. This is When I'm all financially settled. Seeing kids grow up is more than having sex. Its a better feeling, its like watching yourself grow up. Guide them to the person you'll like them to be in the future. I have a little brother and Im experiencing this now, thats why I know having kids will be a lot of pleasure for me.

Regarding not having much sex. You are right. Sometimes you need to sacrifice some things in your life to get to your goal. Earning to live is my main focus as of now. When I'm all financially secured, I'll be ready for everything else(Family, travel, learning new things, sex etc).

Having sex with different races has nothing to do with my impressions from TV. I just want to experience the best pleasures in life the best way possible. I have a very different view of life than most. Right now, I just want to experience life as the creator wants us to experience it. I'll be out of reality(What we percieve life is) if I don't.

Regarding role in Life. I'm glad you have one.
Posted on: Nov 30, 2007, 10:32 PM

Quote from: richpulubi on Nov 30, 2007, 09:42 PM

As to your wanting to have sex with a girl of every race, trust me, most of them smell funny(Filipinos, it turns out, have obssessively better hygiene than most other races). Also, if your main impressions are from TV, trust me, in real life, they don't look that great.

I forgot to ask, have you tried it already? If so, I'd like to experience it too. I can't just believe someone's words. I need to try it myself. And I don't believe lahat bad hygiene sila wahahaha, hindi puede wahahaha. J/k w/ you sir.

By the way I think we should stop this discussion and get back to the topic. Malayo layo na rin nararating nitong usapan natin hahaha. Baka maging masamang example pa ako sa ibang tao dito wahahaha.

Good luck to all.

diamond · « **Reply #16 on:** Dec 01, 2007, 10:42 AM »

It may seem that people have different needs, and goals that motivate them to work. But humans are more alike than we think we are. We are driven by the same universal needs. The difference is the roads that we take to satisfy them which is determined by one's culture, values and norms. So don't even think that you are far different from others. We all need sex. hehe.

Which makes me remember one famous psychologist - Abraham Maslow - who is known for his theory of motivation. Through his studies of normal people, he realized that we are all driven by the same needs. And even ranked these needs in hierarchy - in a pyramid - being the one at the base be satisfied first before the higher needs.

According to him, man will never be fully satisfied. As one need is gratified, another higher need arises. Man's nature that enables him to evolve into his full potential.

Maslow's Hierarchy of needs developed by Maslow - for our reflection.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow's_hierarchy_of_needs

P.S. Baka di sagutin ni richpulubi ang question, mabibisto sya. hehe

rael · « **Reply #17 on:** Dec 01, 2007, 01:42 PM »

very good share, sir diamond. that should give everybody a good reference of where we are, and where we ought to be.

on topic pa ba? anyway, for me, keep on investing or probably run a business to further stabilize my family's future, and then some more to help my less capable relatives. if life rewards me more, i'd like to help charities in a really big way. something really life changing. man, no orgasm is gonna beat that.

Be mild with the mild, shrewd with the crafty, confiding to the honest, rough to the ruffian, and a thunderbolt to the liar. But in all this, never be unmindful of your own dignity. - John Brown

yellowminded · « **Reply #18 on:** Dec 01, 2007, 03:32 PM »

Quote from: mejofer on Nov 29, 2007, 10:31 PM

... travel the world, f*ck a lot of girls, see how my mother is proud of me...

I'm not scared of death anymore, I know after I achieve the money I want that is it. I'll just wait to die, but before that I'll have to enjoy my stint on this place first. We are here for a purpose...

Living the rock star lifestyle, eh? "Live fast, die young and leave a beautiful corpse"?

I think you're in too much of a hurry to become filthy rich. Enjoy the ride, my friend. Consider being able to fornicate with the united colors of Benetton as fringe benefits and not as life's goals. Like what richpulubi has said, you're luckier than most already and with what you have, you can readily enjoy a comfortable, eventful life. I think all that "emo" stuff about finding out our life's purpose is way overrated. Deep down we all know why we're here but a lot of us may find it just not as grand as we wish it to be. Blame it on Hollywood.

But if you really want to learn more about your existence, don't wait for that 30 million (which by the way will not be enough if you get into little "accidents" with your united colors of Benetton... if you catch my drift

). You don't need that much for that purpose. But then again if you think it's a waste of time now, why wouldn't it be a waste of time when you have your 30 million?

Keep a level head, plan your finances well, enjoy life and yes, keep your mom proud!

my 30 million cents.

-y-

mejofer · « **Reply #19 on:** Dec 01, 2007, 04:13 PM »

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Fortuner888 · « **Reply #20 on:** Dec 01, 2007, 04:44 PM »

"Different Folks Different Strokes"

Your goal is your own personal goal which no one can say it's wrong or it's right. I am not offended, mejofer, just entertained and a bit concerned lang.

Life is as you make them. I just wish you the best and hope you will be happy and see your dreams come true. Remember though, not to tread on others' foot on your way up. If you do, remember to apologize sincerely and when you're on top, remember where you came from. Remember those who helped you sincerely along the way. Above all, do remember to say "THANK YOU!!!"

Again, mejofer, I wish you all the best and Good Luck, Bro!

nailbiter · « **Reply #21 on:** Dec 01, 2007, 05:01 PM »

Makikisabat lang, napapag-usapan din lang naman. Dahil World AIDS Day ngayon (December 1), paalala lang sa lahat. Keep yourselves and your partners safe.

Oks, balik sa usapan.

yellowminded · « **Reply #22 on:** Dec 01, 2007, 05:51 PM »

Quote from: mejofer on Dec 01, 2007, 04:13 PM

Is it wrong to have sex? Is it wrong to have sex as a goal? It depends on the person. I don't think so.

Ey, lighten up. I didn't say having sex is wrong. I just think it's so high-school to have it as a life's goal in conjunction to your attainable dreams of earning beyond your 1st and 2nd million (o yan I'm in topic!). But that's me, mejofer. Please don't get offended. We have about 5 years age difference and we definitely have different world views. Give me news after your 10 years time frame and tell me if nothing's changed.

Tama si mr. Fortuner888, different strokes for different folks. But we definitely go through the same thing as far as our libidos are concerned (yes, i'm talking about sex). Being able to put "God", "orgasm", "drugs" and "sex" in the same paragraph doesn't make you different from the rest of us. ;-)

Peace!

my 2 cents worth (ubos na cents ko from last time).

-y-

mejofer · « **Reply #23 on:** Dec 01, 2007, 06:20 PM »

@Fortuner888
Someone PMed me about the sex part might offend some, so I apologized.

Agree with the rest.

And thanks!

@yellowminded
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Thanks for the advises btw!

richpulubi · « **Reply #24 on:** Dec 02, 2007, 12:04 AM »

mejofer · « **Reply #25 on:** Dec 02, 2007, 01:36 AM »

@yellowminded

I can't believe I got offended by your reply. I just read it again, there is nothing offensive in it

.

Medyo kulang sa tulog for 2 days ako eh, I blame it in antok wahahaha.

Sensya na talaga. Back to topic.. sex topic.

(Misread it last time)
Btw regarding Life's purpose and sex. Its something about how I view life, take it as it is. Won't explain further.

@richpulubi
I don't boast about it actually. Kakahiya, parang yabang dating sa labas. Pag nasa labas ako, ang ginagawa ko bili ako ng Juice, di ko pahalata. Sabihin ko kasama ko busog ako. My family knows about. I don't talk about the reason why I don't eat them. They don't know.

Whites look old to me in person. But not all of them, some still look young, but somehow still look old. Regarding smell, probably just happens. Probably they thought why take a bath or shower when I'm not meeting Brad Pitt hhahaha J/k sir lol.

Agree with the rest!

ekimonk · « **Reply #26 on:** Dec 02, 2007, 04:19 PM »

richpulubi · « **Reply #27 on:** Dec 02, 2007, 06:05 PM »

ekimonk, I gather that you're in the IT business, and for me, business is war. And to prepare for war, you must choose your weapons carefully, prudently, and efficiently. So, if purchasing the laptop(your weapon) will help you wup the crap out of your competition, then by all means, get it!

mejofer · « **Reply #28 on:** Dec 02, 2007, 10:58 PM »

@ekimonk
Kailangan mo bang maiinggit kung mas maliit ang pera mo sa akin o you aren't as intelligent? Why did I ask? Kasi I don't think I ever said naiingit ka, so why feel the need to tell me you are rich and smart? Self-esteem + Ego problem

Btw I don't remember starting anything with you? Why mock me personally you don't even know me and my beliefs?

Quite frustrating to talk to people who can't relate to you. I remember when my sister asked me about nothingness. Could anything exist from it? I was very young and didn't know what she was on about, so I ignored the question.

Lets get back to topic please.

cjap10 · « **Reply #29 on:** Dec 03, 2007, 10:00 AM »

I have not earned my first million yet. But once I have it, ciempre re-invest lang para lalo pang dumami. Pwedeng maliit na yang 1M na yan in a few years kaya dapat paramihin...