Author Topic: malihim na gf! (Read 2906 times)

eugene · « **Reply #15 on:** Jun 27, 2012, 06:07 PM »

Quote from: kuhamo on Jun 27, 2012, 05:38 PM

wag kang duwag hehe, confront her.

haha puwede !

arts24 · « **Reply #16 on:** Jun 27, 2012, 07:00 PM »

Quote from: kuhamo on Jun 27, 2012, 05:38 PM

wag kang duwag hehe, confront her.

kuha mo?

sa akin naman, try to examine din natin ang sarili natin.. sa tingin mo ano kaya ang dahilan bat ganun ang treatment sayo ng gf mo? Is there a certain reason or past experienced bat nagkakaganyan ang gf mo? Kailangan talagang kausapin mo sya ng mabuti para maliwanagan din ang pag iisip mo then try your best to find a solution kng paano maayos ang problema.. wish you both happiness sa inyong relasyon..

gogreenexpert · « **Reply #17 on:** Jun 27, 2012, 10:08 PM »

Tingin ko niloloko ka na lang nun... kung ang gf mo hindi proud sayo, e bakit ka pa nya sinagot. Pero regarding naman sa password, ok lang na di nya ibigay kasi privacy naman nya yun at kailangan respetuhin mo yun.

jumi07 · « **Reply #18 on:** Jun 27, 2012, 10:54 PM »

Quote from: spidermannn on Jun 27, 2012, 10:05 AM

so bottom line ipagtitiwala mo ba lahat... kung di mo sya kilala? kahit mahal mo sya,, kelangan kilala mo sya.. and ung intensyon nya !!!

wag puro emosyon...

Eto yun eh

vhinsent08 · « **Reply #19 on:** Jun 28, 2012, 03:29 AM »

bak di lang naman showy!! mahiyain ba???

kung me problema ka sa mukha maari din!!

hiwalayan mu na lang .. mahirap kasi sa start ng relationship e meron ng taguan kung GF MATERIAL lang naman at hindi pa WIFE material sayo..

mas ok yung friend nya na friend Mo din me gusto din sayo yun!!!

freefront · « **Reply #20 on:** Jun 28, 2012, 04:39 AM »

What is with all da drama? Ditch her!

Ganito lang kasi yan. Kung ako ang lalaki na may GF---note: ALL CAPS., I will tell, profess and proclaim and label the girl as my GF to just about anybody, maski sa poste pa sa kanto. Kaya, kung may GF ka na tinatago ka na parang kulugo, tapos na kayo---last week pa!

Ulit: Your GF will lag you around like you are the substitute to sunshine and the next best thing to a sinful triple layer, double fudge chocolate cake. Which you probably are, if you know how to make friends with girls and have them as gfs or bffs.

mikoangelo · « **Reply #21 on:** Jun 28, 2012, 10:29 AM »

Kung MAHAL ka talaga ng GF mo..

Wala syang ibang gugustuhin na baguhin..

Kundi ang last name nya...

nangungulit lang...

plus 1 kay ff...ganun lang kasimple yun...

bauer · « **Reply #22 on:** Jun 28, 2012, 04:57 PM »

Quote from: mikoangelo on Jun 28, 2012, 10:29 AM

Kung MAHAL ka talaga ng GF mo..

Wala syang ibang gugustuhin na baguhin..

Kundi ang last name nya...

galing naman. di ba dapat sa diskarte thread ito?

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Quote from: vhinsent08 on Jun 28, 2012, 03:29 AM

mas ok yung friend nya na friend Mo din me gusto din sayo yun!!!

pwede.... di ko naisip yun ah!

missreese · « **Reply #23 on:** Jun 29, 2012, 08:31 AM »

girl din ba friend ni gf mo? eh baka may gusto sayo yung friend mo

sinisiraan si gf. hehe.. joke lang..

bajoyjoy · « **Reply #24 on:** Jun 29, 2012, 10:30 AM »

^or pwede din guy yung friend, at may gusto either kay valley or sa gf nya. these days, you can never can tell,

my take on this naman is, parang ung classic na tanong: ano nauna, manok o itlog? which came first, you snooping around for info or her being secretive?

dati na ba syang malihim o ngyon na lang? bakit nagiging malihim, msyado ka bang mang-interrogate? i understand na gf mo sya dapat honest sya sayo, pero may limit pa rin naman. how long have you been together anyway? kasi kung bago pa lang kayo tapos ultimo fb password hinihingi mo, e she might not be too happy with that esp if she's not used to sharing everything... from her point of view, it could mean you dont trust her kaya lahat gusto mo malaman, lahat gusto mo may access ka. i echo the comments of PeopleSupport, above.

and the common friend nyo na hindi nya alam na friend mo rin, mejo sneaky naman yata yung ginawa. inutusan mo ba magtanong ng ganung mga tanong - "di mo mahal bf mo noh?" ganun sila ka-close para magtanong sya ng ganung kapersonal -- at sagutin din ng gf mo ng ganun ka-casual na "aha"... if i was your gf i'll just say anything para siguro tantanan na lang ang pagtatanong ng ganun ka-personal. anyway, kung ako lang naman...

better talk to your gf straight. you are the BOYfriend, act like one.
hirap naman speculation lang ang basis mo, porket di nagpopost ng pics sa fb, or sabi ni common friend di ka DAW importante, etc. kung talagang kinahihiya ka, she would not even admit na may bf sya. and with the very little and unverified info na ipinasa sayo, you torture yourself with all these suspicions, when you can or you should be in the best position to ask your gf directly. pinagkonek-konek mo na yung mga "daw" allegations, wala pa namang official word from her. kalokah yan koyang!

as to the ex trying to steal her back, protect your territory if you must, but dont jump to conclusions, kaya nga dapat kausapin mo si gf, hindi si common friend, at hindi kami

once naman maverify mo na totoo mga chismis or suspetsa mo, you would know what to do.

yellowminded · « **Reply #25 on:** Jun 29, 2012, 11:06 AM »

GTFO of that relationship and never look back. You don't need that kind of drama believe me.

Hehe. Seriously, take the advice of people here and talk to her sincerely and if you feel that there are just too many secrets for comfort, then do what you think is right.

bauer · « **Reply #26 on:** Jun 29, 2012, 11:47 AM »

Quote from: bajoyjoy on Jun 29, 2012, 10:30 AM

^or pwede din guy yung friend, at may gusto either kay valley or sa gf nya. these days, you can never can tell,

hahahaa... habang tumatagal, sobrang nakakaaliw na ang mga scenarios!

Palamig · « **Reply #27 on:** Jun 29, 2012, 11:01 PM »

Trust you instinct pare..... may malalaman kang sekreto niya o baka naman may ginawa kang kababalaghan kay ganya GF mo...

valley_07 · « **Reply #28 on:** Jun 30, 2012, 02:17 PM »

Quote from: bajoyjoy on Jun 29, 2012, 10:30 AM

^or pwede din guy yung friend, at may gusto either kay valley or sa gf nya. these days, you can never can tell,

my take on this naman is, parang ung classic na tanong: ano nauna, manok o itlog? which came first, you snooping around for info or her being secretive?

dati na ba syang malihim o ngyon na lang? bakit nagiging malihim, msyado ka bang mang-interrogate? i understand na gf mo sya dapat honest sya sayo, pero may limit pa rin naman. how long have you been together anyway? kasi kung bago pa lang kayo tapos ultimo fb password hinihingi mo, e she might not be too happy with that esp if she's not used to sharing everything... from her point of view, it could mean you dont trust her kaya lahat gusto mo malaman, lahat gusto mo may access ka. i echo the comments of PeopleSupport, above.

and the common friend nyo na hindi nya alam na friend mo rin, mejo sneaky naman yata yung ginawa. inutusan mo ba magtanong ng ganung mga tanong - "di mo mahal bf mo noh?" ganun sila ka-close para magtanong sya ng ganung kapersonal -- at sagutin din ng gf mo ng ganun ka-casual na "aha"... if i was your gf i'll just say anything para siguro tantanan na lang ang pagtatanong ng ganun ka-personal. anyway, kung ako lang naman...

better talk to your gf straight. you are the BOYfriend, act like one.
hirap naman speculation lang ang basis mo, porket di nagpopost ng pics sa fb, or sabi ni common friend di ka DAW importante, etc. kung talagang kinahihiya ka, she would not even admit na may bf sya. and with the very little and unverified info na ipinasa sayo, you torture yourself with all these suspicions, when you can or you should be in the best position to ask your gf directly. pinagkonek-konek mo na yung mga "daw" allegations, wala pa namang official word from her. kalokah yan koyang!

as to the ex trying to steal her back, protect your territory if you must, but dont jump to conclusions, kaya nga dapat kausapin mo si gf, hindi si common friend, at hindi kami

once naman maverify mo na totoo mga chismis or suspetsa mo, you would know what to do.

THE REAL THING IS GUYS.(AKO RIN MISMO YUNG KAUSAP NIA WHEN SINABI NIYA NA "HINDI NAMAN DAW AKO IMPORTANTE"..(actually gumawa ako ng dummy account and kinopya ko ung account ng friend nia.that's it.it all happen sa FB). and as per kausapin ko xa in private sabi nia is mahal nia ko.(pero like i said sa ibang friend nia sinabi nia hindi ako importante?.wtf!.this means na niloloko nia lang ako diba?and kung hindi pa ako gumawa dummy account hindi ko malalaman un guys. and e2 din, bigla nia sinisingit lagi na pano pagkinuha daw xa ng ex boyfriend nia.papakawalan ko daw ba xa?..DAMN!.hindi ba nasasakanya na un kung magpapakuha xa?..

bloomerman · « **Reply #29 on:** Jun 30, 2012, 07:46 PM »

Hindi ko alam kung ano gusto sabihin nmin sayo. Alam mo naman pala hindi ka importante bakit kelangan mo pa pahirapan sarili mo? Is she worth fighting for? Well kung gusto mong maging martir it's all up to you. Since you made it posted here be prepared to receive different reaction/advise/comments from all of us. Honestly, I've been there before, yung hindi ka na mahal at hindi na pinapansin pero gagawa ka ng way para makuha attention niya. It hurts at first but we can all move on, part of growing up and maturing.

Sa mga bagay na ginawa mo like making dummy account, conspiring to a common friend, do you think this is not cheating? Niloloko mo siya at ang sarili mo. You should build up self-confidence, wag mo paikutin ang mundo mo sa kanya. It takes two to tango, martir lang nagsasayaw mag isa...