[nickolaus]

They do so as they lack the attention of the opposite sex. Some people do that due to their characters. I think that there is no sense to save such relationships, because they will not last long and they will not be trustful.

[gogreenexpert]

Simple lang... hindi nila mahal ang isa't isa. Kasi kung mahal nila ang asawa nila hindi nila gagawin ang ano mang bagay na alam nilang makakasakit sa mahal nila.

[businessmind]

^thats funny emsam. would a guy/husband dare to initiate the idea of a threesome na 2 ang lalake? what if the wife agrees? Would any husband follow through with it, see his wife getting it on with another man? Remember pasakalye mo lang yan, to introduce the idea... Pag binawi mo yang dare mo, mas lalong hindi ka na makakahirit ng threesome na 2 ang babae.
Post Merge: Feb 21, 2012, 04:46 PMthe men here at PMT, show of hands nga kung ok kayo sa sinasabi ni emsam?   

tama ka ma'am bajoyjoy, paano kung mag yes c kumander...patay ego mo nyan d ba?..mapapa isip ka tuloy na d pa pala satisfied sa akin..hehehe
Post Merge: Jun 08, 2012, 12:06 PM
 I don't want to sound like a saint, coz believe me lahat na cguro ng pag cheat sa asawa nagawa ko na nun..i think sa part ng lalaki adrenalin rush lang cguro ang habol ng iba kaya nag kakaron ng ikalawang bathala, parang thrill kumbaga 

 it hit me one day na parang pagod na man ako, then bigla ko na lang ini-stop..ang isa sa malaking naging tulong rin is nag basa uli ako ng bible..it builds you character. now i can say i'm happy with wat i've done and been sober for 2 years na.

[norm17]

Because they are cheaters. Only cheaters cheat.

very well said

[truthhunter101]

Kaya nagchecheat ang babae pag nakikita nya yung lalake mahina.
Low energy, parang babae kumilos hindi nman bakla, passive ang characteristics, at weak emotionally. Dahil naka program sa babae nung unang panahon na maghanap ng better na mate para maka pag produce ng strong genes. Kaya kung mahina ang dating mo at may asawa ka tapos panay tingin sa iba yung asawa mo there's something you need to change and improve in you as man. The reality is female is program to look for better mate.

[♥Mementomori♥]

1.  Lack of Communication - sobrang walang ng time to talk about the important things in their lives. Wala ng interest.

2. Arrange Marriage??? - this is one of the big factor why husband/wife cheats. Kung hindi talaga nila gusto ang isa't isa. They tend to end their marriage by clingling to others. Para kung baga eh may dahilan na silang mag hiwalay.

3. Hindi na mahal ang isa't isa

4. NATUKSO sa IBA 

[freeman12]

Why do husbands/wives cheat?

Ang sagot ko jan ay:

1. Something is lacking in the relationship, either spiritual, emotional (love, respect, faithfulness, SACRIFICE) or physical. (sex, siguro finances din)

2. Selfishness. So para mapunuan ang pagkukulang ni misis/ mister, hahanap ng iba para matugunan ang sariling pangangailangan.

Usually lust ang sagot dun, but there is really a bigger problem behind why people cheat in their marriages.

[pmtmember]

ang cheater, cheater talaga. No reasons kailangan. Marami naman dyan na on the same situation pero hindi nag cheat

[kithe]

Huwag na magcheat, daanin na lang natin sa kantahan.. 

"There's A Danger In Loving Somebody Too Much"

I don't wanna lose you
and I don't wanna use you
just to have somebody by my side
I don't wanna hate you
And I don't wanna take you
But I don't wanna be the one to cry
And It don't really matter
to anyone anymore
like a fool I keep losing my place
and I keep seeing you walk through that door

There's a danger in loving
somebody too much
and it's sad when you know it's your
heart they can't trust
there's a reason why people don't stay
where they are, baby sometimes love just
aint enough.

I could never change you
and I don't wanna blame you
baby, you don't have to take the fall
Yes, I may have hurt you
but I did not deserve you
maybe I just wanna have it all
it makes it sound like thunder
it makes me feel like a rain
like a fool who will never see the truth
i keep thinking somethings gonna change

There's a danger in loving
somebody too much
and it's sad when you know it's your
heart they can trust
there's a reason why people don't stay
where they are, baby sometimes love just
aint enough.

And there's no way home
when it's late at night and you're all alone
all the things that you wanted to say
do you feel me beside you in you're bed
right beside you where i used to lay

There's a danger in loving
somebody too much
and it's sad when you know it's your
heart they can touch
there's a reason why people don't stay
who they are, baby sometimes love just
aint enough.

baby sometimes love just
aint enough.

[pmtmember]

Huwag na magcheat, daanin na lang natin sa kantahan.. 

"There's A Danger In Loving Somebody Too Much"

I don't wanna lose you
and I don't wanna use you
just to have somebody by my side
I don't wanna hate you
And I don't wanna take you
But I don't wanna be the one to cry
And It don't really matter
to anyone anymore
like a fool I keep losing my place
and I keep seeing you walk through that door

There's a danger in loving
somebody too much
and it's sad when you know it's your
heart they can't trust
there's a reason why people don't stay
where they are, baby sometimes love just
aint enough.

I could never change you
and I don't wanna blame you
baby, you don't have to take the fall
Yes, I may have hurt you
but I did not deserve you
maybe I just wanna have it all
it makes it sound like thunder
it makes me feel like a rain
like a fool who will never see the truth
i keep thinking somethings gonna change

There's a danger in loving
somebody too much
and it's sad when you know it's your
heart they can trust
there's a reason why people don't stay
where they are, baby sometimes love just
aint enough.

And there's no way home
when it's late at night and you're all alone
all the things that you wanted to say
do you feel me beside you in you're bed
right beside you where i used to lay

There's a danger in loving
somebody too much
and it's sad when you know it's your
heart they can touch
there's a reason why people don't stay
who they are, baby sometimes love just
aint enough.

baby sometimes love just
aint enough.

alam ko dati ang chords nito ah. il grab my guitar LOL

[fatboy07]

Simple lang... hindi nila mahal ang isa't isa. Kasi kung mahal nila ang asawa nila hindi nila gagawin ang ano mang bagay na alam nilang makakasakit sa mahal nila.

tama.

[wiggy]

Narinig at nabasa ko ang mga kwento. Fortunately hindi ko pa naman nararanasan ang pag-taksilan. Shempre ang gusto ko sa partner is loyal.

Pero mga bro/sis:

I know every relationship can be rocky at times, hindi pwedeng masaya palagi. But paano ba ninyo malalaman kung ang girl is may tendency to cheat, especially when the relationship is on its down moment?

Is there any signs or red flags that we should be aware of? Kahit during 'courtship' or during the relationship signs. TIA.

[freeman12]

^Tip: Cellfones. Kapag ayaw nya ipahiram or parang laging nakatingin sya kapag kinakalikot mo cell nya. tyak may tinatago sayo un.

[Puroy]

kaya nagtataksil ang babae:
1. walang pera/trabaho ang lalaki - kaya wag dapat gutumin ang mga babae, sabe nga "a happy wife is a happy life."
2. malayo sa asawa/tigang na

kaya nag tataksil ang lalaki
1. Alpha male attitude
2. tigang na/ malayo sa asawa

naenjoy ko yung buhay binata ko dati and i only cheated on my wife once(1 girl for a year lol) when i went abroad before, natigang lang talaga pero di naman ako pumalya sa resposibilidad lalo na financially. Nun umuwi ako ng Pinas nakasama ko ng more than a year yung 2 kids ko, parang naubos libido ko. haha.. nung nagabroad ulit ako, mas malaki ang sahod pero di na ako nagcheat ulit(kahit ramdam ko na may mga umaaligid pang mga chicks lol), mas lalo ako naging matipid at hanggat maari iwas bisyo mapa inom o bili ng luho. naisip ko mas masarap gastusin yung naipon ko sa mga anak ko, mas masaya pag buo ang pamilya. 

PS. pero pag malaman ko nag nagloko si misis, kalas, hiwalay agad. walang sorry sorry. haha.. 

[makasabat_po]

  Parang pagkain din daw kasi yan. Hindi pwedeng araw-araw eh adobo. Paminsan-minsan tumikim ka ng kare-kare waheheh