Author Topic: "How Do You Maintain The Warmth and Sweetness Between Spouses,.. Forever?.. (Read 12219 times)

nel · « **Reply #135 on:** Aug 16, 2009, 12:38 AM »

^di maiiwasan ang mag-away minsan o magtampuhan...normal lang yan sa mag-asawa
but if u want to maintain warmth and sweetness sa bawat isa, hanapin ang main cause
ng problema and resolve it. Stop blaming one another, better yet is to try analyzing
yourself...baka naman ikaw ang may pagkukulang, so make the first move to change
yourself. Simulan mo sa sarili mo and you'll see that something good will follow!

just1362 · « **Reply #136 on:** Aug 16, 2009, 09:59 AM »

Kailangan din siguro maging sentimental din tayo minsan lalo na pag si misis ay medyo naglalambing (or nagkakaroon ng insecurities dahil malapit ng mag-menopause o kaya nagkakaroon na sya ng wrinkles sa mukha). One time, my wifey asked something to me which I replied thru a poem and since 'di ako marunong magcompose ng poem, I just recited a poem which I had recited in one of our subjects in high school, more than 20 years ago. And wanna share it here:

Believe Me, If All Those Endearing Young Charms

Believe me, if all those endearing young charms,
Which I gaze on so fondly today,
Were to change by tomorrow, and fleet in my arms,
Like fairy-gifts fading away,
Thou wouldst still be adored, as this moment thou art,
Let thy loveliness fade as it will,
And around the dear ruin each wish of my heart
Would entwine itself verdantly still.

It is not while beauty and youth are thine own,
And thy cheeks unprofaned by a tear;
That the fervor and faith of a soul can be known,
To which time will but make thee more dear;
No, the heart that has truly loved never forgets,
But as truly loves on to the close,
As the sunflower turns on her god, when he sets,
The same look which she turned when he rose.

ric_TNT · « **Reply #137 on:** Aug 16, 2009, 06:39 PM »

Kung marunong kayo mag-karaoke, awitin nyo sa inyong minamahal ang awiting "IF TOMMOROW NEVER COMES" ni Ronan Keating.

Here are some lines "

If tommorow never comes, Will she know how much I love her

And if my time on earth is through, and she must face the world without me
Is the love I gave her in the past, gonna be enough to last, If tommorow never comes.

And avoid the circumstance, where there's no second chance to tell her how I feel,
If tommorow never comes.

Dati kasi nako kornihan ako magsabi ng I Love You lalo na nung nasa military pa ako. Lately, napag-isip isip ko, paano nga ba kung hindi na dumating ang bukas, paano ko pa masasabi ang aking damdamin sa aking minamahal. Kaya dapat araw araw, maya't maya hwag tayo magsawa magsabi ng words of love kahit man lang sa telepono, sa text, sa chat etc...

Namnamin ninyo ang bawa't talata ng awitin bagama't English, pakiramdam ko matutunaw ang puso ko. (korni talaga ano po?).

nel · « **Reply #138 on:** Aug 16, 2009, 06:49 PM »

wow sir ric, talaga namang nakakainlove po ang mga lines na yan...hehe...soooo sweet!

sobrang totoo po, kelangan lagi may words of endearment sa ting mga love ones kasi baka mamaya di na natin magawang sabihin yun or maipadama man lang.

redvel · « **Reply #139 on:** Aug 16, 2009, 11:05 PM »

Quote from: nel on Aug 16, 2009, 06:49 PM

wow sir ric, talaga namang nakakainlove po ang mga lines na yan...hehe...soooo sweet! sobrang totoo po, kelangan lagi may words of endearment sa ting mga love ones kasi baka mamaya di na natin magawang sabihin yun or maipadama man lang.

I Agree...

tops5450 · « **Reply #140 on:** Aug 17, 2009, 03:01 AM »

This is the only thing that keeps my love to my loving wife " I wanna grow old with you".

Langerhans · « **Reply #141 on:** Aug 17, 2009, 03:04 AM »

^ Familiar lines.

tops5450 · « **Reply #142 on:** Aug 17, 2009, 04:27 PM »

Just for thought...

A Woman'

This is written in the Hebrew Talmud,
The book where all of the sayings and preaching of
Rabbis are conserved over time.

It says: 'Be very careful if you make a woman
cry, because God counts her tears. The woman
came out of a man's rib.

Not from his feet to be
walked on.

Not from his head to be superior, but
from the side to be equal.

Under the arm to be
protected, and next to the heart to be loved.'

walu0512 · « **Reply #143 on:** Aug 17, 2009, 06:56 PM »

WoW! That's nice tops5450. Gentlemen, isapuso nyo naman yan.

Amberthe · « **Reply #144 on:** Aug 17, 2009, 11:08 PM »

pano nga ba sir redvel?

... siguro be sensitive on the needs of each other ( iba-iba kasi yan depende sa mood) at the same time be adventurous para d naman maging stagnant and boring. Surprise your partner on special occassions

redvel · « **Reply #145 on:** Aug 18, 2009, 11:52 AM »

^^
oo nga po ano?... yung tipong magugulat sya at me roses ka para sa kanya,.. how sweet..

Amberthe · « **Reply #146 on:** Aug 19, 2009, 05:00 AM »

Better yet samahan mo ng greeting cards according to the occassion with sweet na sweet na message para kahit matuyo na ung roses andun pa rin ung card... maiba naman kesa daily messages sa text! And syempre may nilalanggam na "I love you" and

kiss:-*... as often as you can, not just on special dates.

redvel · « **Reply #147 on:** Aug 19, 2009, 09:24 PM »

^^
yes... para sweet na sweet.. tipong lalanggamin..hehehe..

redvel · « **Reply #148 on:** Aug 23, 2009, 04:31 PM »

...magsimba every Sunday,. kasama ang buong family.. Have a Blessed Sunday..

microcube22 · « **Reply #149 on:** Aug 23, 2009, 08:41 PM »

Never ever argue about money. My wife and I had an agreement that we should never have a fight about money. Since then its very rare that we fought. Nowadays she only nags me when I go home drunk